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Hey all I am in a pretty awesome relationship with the girl of my dreams and when we first started I was a clueless virgin and she was completely dominant while she was teaching me things now I know alot but she is rarely dominant now when we do anything she wants me to take charge how do I convince her to be dominant as it turns me on hella

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That's because females like a man!  Men take charge and rule, they are supposed to be the patriarch.  Let her know what you like and I bet you both will be taking turns who take charge.  Have fun and hope this helps

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It does thanks I didnt think of it that way
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Sometimes it helps to have someone else, like a female see it from their perspective. Glad to help!
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Have you told her how much you would like her to "be on top" so to speak? If you talk about it I bet she'll do it for you just like you do what she wants.

I agree with Liz.
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Hi Guest,

I agree with the others. Many women love a man to take charge, but that said many of us like to dominate on occasions. Some women also prefer a less dominant role because they lack confidence in their sexual prowess. As with everything about sex communication is vital. You don't need to sit down and have a serious talk. You can talk in a playful way about your mutual fantasies and let her know what you would like.  Talk to her and find out what she thinks. She might just think that you want to dominate. Although my BF tends to dominate and we both love it that way, on occasion we turn it on its head (usually spontaneously) and we both  love that too. Variety keeps it interesting.

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