So I consider myself to be a little bigger than average (6.5 inches) and a grower. She's been with 5 dudes and we've had sex only a few times. She seems to enjoy it very much, she's had more than one orgasm at a time, shakes a ton when she gets off etc. but she hasn't said anything specific about my penis, like she loves it, or its big/small whatever. I asked her if it was big enough for her during sex she said mmmhm and just kinda continued to enjoy it. My ex girlfriend was sucking it constantly and telling me how awesome it was all the time. Should I just stop thinking and be patient or assume she's had some bigger penises than mine and doesn't wanna make me feel bad? Also, she is so in love with me. If that makes anything different. We got a good thing going
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If she does indeed love you and enjoys sex with you, why obsess about your penis size? Should not matter to you since it obviously doesn't matter to her.
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Hi countryboy, she is not acting like your ex because she is not your ex. She has a different personality. Chances are she is perfectly happy with your penis, she just doesn't feel the need to talk about it. Not all girls or women do. Or maybe she is shy. Also, most girls and women are more interested in how you make love to them, how you take the time to pleasure them than they are in the size of your penis. My guy has a very big penis, which is great, but that is not what makes him a great lover. And I have had other partners who have had smaller penises who have also been wonderful lovers. don't overthink this. If you are a generous lover she will be more than satisfied, but maybe she just isn't the type to say so. Don't go seeking reassurance all the time about your penis size. Just be assured that its fine and its unlikely that she is comparing your size to other people's. Most girls and women aren't that interested in penis size unless it is too big to be comfortable or too small, which you are not. what she will care about is how you treat her when you have sex. Are you loving and attentive? Do you know/ask what she likes? Do you care about her feelings and get pleasure? That is what makes a great lover. I'm sure all is fine. I hope that helps.
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Well, all women are different, and not all of them are as open to talking about things like that; it could be that she is just shy, or she is not aware that you want her to talk about it. If she is in love with you, then chances are she thinks your penis is great; you may just be more focused on its appearance than she is. My advice would be to just relax, enjoy what you’ve got, and use it. Just keep it clean, so that it really will be attractive, and you might consider using a penis health cream (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil) that is enriched with vitamins and moisturizers to keep your tool looking healthy and appealing.
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A lot of females don't know we should say something about your penis think about it it's the way we are raised, we don't mention privates as to their name, I do my daughter is almost 3 and she knows that she has a vagina and so does mommy and daddy has a penis and is a boy which all boys have penises. There should be no shame talking about penises but for some reason there always is, we tend to blush and act shy when talking about these parts. I'm 38 and it's taken time to openly talk to my husband about these things and I used to be shy about my body parts in front of him, now I masturbate openly in front of him as does him in front of me. She doesn't say anything because she is happy if she did say something it might be negative so be happy with what you have!
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It's too bad so many of us grow up acting like the best parts we all have should never be mentioned.
I spend most of my time during sex making love to all the wonderful parts in my wife's vulva and making sure she knows I love every little bit in there. It would be really nice to have her make love to my penis and balls too, but that just is not the way she was taught. It seems that most girls grow up being told that what boys have is ugly and even dirty but I think Liz may be doing her best to change that.
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Oh yeah. My husband is a lucky man. When my husband gets head it is not just head that gets attention it's all of it down there, did you know that one of the more erogenous zones on the male is in between the balls and anus? Hmm, you can make a man go squirrelly like a female you know. HeHe, makes you feel in charge too.
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You know I seem to remember you asking about female hygiene one time if we don't get washed the same way by our mothers? No, not at all. We don't start getting discharge in our vaginas until we hit puberty and you have to figure out that you clean that out and avoid bacterial vaginosis and uterine infections, etc. You know the only time I had a UTI was after my hysterectomy and the doctor mucking around down there, obviously more dirty than I or my finger for cleaning, masturbating or my husband's penis or my toy 'blue'. So we don't get a schooling on cleaning at all, I figured that one out on my own and like I said never had an infection, STD/I, overgrowth of vaginal discharge or stinky discharge. I grew up in a very religious house and private parts discussion was taboo, so I really don't know how I learned everything I did. Although, it's basic knowledge and you can use your head if you are smart.
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Hold that thought, I'll be right there. :-p
Ya got me Liz, I didn't know that, but I'm willing to learn.
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See we can teach 'old' dogs new tricks. Now you just have to find someone who is willing to try it on you or talk your wife into trying it?
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Yeah Liz, there was little I learned at home too. My mother did tell me I would see other boys who looked different because they had some skin cut off. She also taught me to retract and wash because the doctor told her she had to do that since she didn't let him cut it off.
The rest of my "sex-ed" was DON'T. Don't touch a girl "there" and don't let a girl touch you. Thankfully that warning was blown by the time I was 7. One good thing about having only girls for playmates.
It wasn't until I found a colonel's daughter when I was in the army that I learned any more. She taught me to use my head. Well, she just stuffed it in between her legs and held it there -- for hours at a time. What I really should have been doing while there I didn't learn until many years later, very slowly one bit at a time. Oh! That's not what you meant by using your head was it? Or was it?
It took me years to learn (figure out?) what I believe we all should know by the time we get out of high school and are ready to begin our lives with someone we love. At the time when our young bodies are best able to give both of us the most pleasure, why should we be so ignorant of how to make them work?
I think the hygiene question was in reference to the girl who was afraid to touch herself. I wondered if mothers spread their lips to wash between them at bath time or just ignored those parts and gave the crotch a cursory pass with the wash cloth.
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