I'm 15 almost 16 and my bf is 16

Ahh, two months is a lifetime at 15 almost 16.

What can you expect?  Pain and some bleeding likely. 

You could also end up with an STD, you can't tell if he has one, or you could get pregnant. Even if you don't get pregnant you'll likely worry that you might be, until you've had your period, and even then you'll be wondering because you've heard you can have your period while you're pregnant.  You can't, but you can have bleeding.  For the STD you may not even know you have one until a few years from now.  That's when you find out you have chlamydia.  Because you've left it untreated all these years your fallopian tubes are scarred and may not ever be able to have children.

Remember, sleeping with him is the same as sleeping with EVERYONE that he's ever slept with before (and all their partners too).

You'll never be a virgin again.  Soon everyone will know and if you ever break up with him, probably shortly after you've had sex, you'll have another guy at your door looking for an easy hookup.

Use a condom, always.

Good luck.  Hope you find this advice useful.  Enjoy yourselves.

 

Yeah, two months doesn't sound like much, but I trust him, and I love him, and I'm not in love with EVERY guy I date, he's different, we've known each other since birth, and been bestfriends since 6th grade, that's how I know about his one other partner. (I know, EVERYone says "he's different", and I'm hoping I'm correct.)

I know abou the bleeding, pain? I also heard if he is gentle (which he says he will be) will that help at all?

I convinced him to get checked for an STD and surprising he actually did it and he's clean. He lost his virginity at age 13 and continued being sexually active until 14 with the same girl. No one else since then and no one since I had him get checked. I am worried about that kind of thing and that's why I've waited, even though it's not very long.

I understand I'll never be a virgin again, and I've thought about that also and we've both talked about it over and over, we've talked this through, and even my mom knows this is going to happen, I would never hide this from her, she's always told me the exact same things you just did and wants me to be honest with her and so I was.

Thank you for all this information by the way! But like I said above, if he's gentle as he said he would be, will that help to atleast decrease the pain?

Yes it will help if he's gentle.

Don't rush things. Tell him to take his time, have him pleasure you with oral so that you're very wet. Use extra lube.

I'm glad your mom knows about this. If you are comfortable talking to her about sex ask her for advice.

Good luck.

oh okay, thankyou for this info, I will deffinitely make use of it.

It doesnt help if the guy is gentle btw, the 1st time is always going to hurt and the girl is nervous anyway about the 1st time so she's tense.