Right, well feel a bit silly doing this but i need advice!!
Me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time last wednesday. This was my first time having sex but not his, so I was nervous.
We didnt fully 'finish' becuase It hurt and I was nervous. I new that I was bleeding, i just new it.
I was bleeding quite a lot, and now a week later, I am still very slightly bleeding! You cant tell I'm bleeding normaly, but after masterbation I blead.
Is this normal? Ive heard that girls can bleed a lot but I dont know how long for?
He was cool that I was a virgin and everything, but he was quite rough, when we did oral and the actuall sex.
We have done oral before and he was quite rough then too, causing me to bleed a little bit, I thought tha would be it, but it wasnt.
Worried about having sex again, becuase I do not want to bleed again as its emberacing
What is wrong with me?
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I don't think there's anything wrong with you but there is something wrong with him. He's too rough!!!!! Do you believe a guy is supposed to be rough when he's doing you? Why is he being so rough that he hurts you?
Why in the world is he being so rough doing oral? He has to bite you on purpose to make you bleed or at least scrape your vulva or clit with his teeth. That's not being loving in my book.
He needs to learn to treat you with respect and to be gentle as if he actually loves you.
I don't blame you for not wanting to have sex again, with him anyway. He should be embarrassed for making you bleed not you because you did bleed. It's not your fault that you bled, he did it!!!
There's nothing wrong with you, it's him.
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ahh thanks, glad im normal then haha.
Yeah we have talked about it in the last few days, I dont think he meant to be rough, it just happened. Hes been with another girl (his ex long term girlfriend) so maybe she liked it like that?
Anyway, we have talked about! He feels bad at least.
We want to try again, but I dont know when to, becuase I dont want to bleed again?
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