I went to ***edited by moderator*** web addresses not allowed to discover (the hard way) about Traumatic Masturbatory Syndrome I am single 33 and have never had sex I prefer to not masterbate but on accation it happens I have in the past only did a mix of "prone" and back"proper" masterbation. all of a sudden I discovered abruptly that I couldnt masterbate very easy the next day at all in fact. thats when I discovered healthy strokes and dicovered I need to stop how I did it. so I followed there adivice about abstaining for a period of time. and on top of that for the next month or two I did it naturaly(abstaining) many times for 1 or 2 week periods. I prefer to not masterbate I am just concerned about my future relations with my wife to be found soon. and insensitivity in sex. now recently I it somewhat happend again I have improved it wasnt completely insensitive but it has really a allot of work to try to get a climax I use soap and water suds to do the dasterly.
now heres the issue I have absolulty no problem the first time I do it but the next time I try it is way way harder. will I get better in time provided I dont do the prone possition any more
also is it bad to rub through cloths provided not prone
this is teraably embarrassing but a sad truth for me
will I get better It is my belif that I have Traumatic Masturbatory Syndrome the problem being that not the first time a problem but the second time after that is the sensitivity problem I am able to manage but it takes a worrisome amount of time
I used to use a soap mixture before I found out about Traumatic Masturbatory Syndrome so I know how quickly its suppose to happen
is sex more rubby per say then slippery soap that would be good if it was because I tried without soap and was able to get it slightly quicker but still a fair amount of effort
like I said I havent only done prone just half the time.
what should I do to get better and please ease my worry
please advise
now heres the issue I have absolulty no problem the first time I do it but the next time I try it is way way harder. will I get better in time provided I dont do the prone possition any more
also is it bad to rub through cloths provided not prone
this is teraably embarrassing but a sad truth for me
will I get better It is my belif that I have Traumatic Masturbatory Syndrome the problem being that not the first time a problem but the second time after that is the sensitivity problem I am able to manage but it takes a worrisome amount of time
I used to use a soap mixture before I found out about Traumatic Masturbatory Syndrome so I know how quickly its suppose to happen
is sex more rubby per say then slippery soap that would be good if it was because I tried without soap and was able to get it slightly quicker but still a fair amount of effort
like I said I havent only done prone just half the time.
what should I do to get better and please ease my worry
please advise
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Just follow the advice on healthystrokes. the advice healthystrokes gives will work. it worked for me. you will be ok when it comes to married life. you have plenty of time to follow the advice of healthystrokes. thanks for sharing what you learned about traumatic masturbatory syndrome from healthystrokes with others.
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why is it takeing so long. its been 2-3 months of many abstaining periods does it just take time.(it has gotten some better)
another thing is this I normaly dont like to use stimulus to do it. I just do it only without nothing. so I tried an experement I went on the interent and found stimulus just to see if it made a difference and it responded within the minute. I did this three times one at night the next morning and 1 hour after that. all within a minute. but I never had problems in the past, without stimulus. now I have the nervousness that will I always need to be turned on for it to happen. will I have problems if I am not turned on.
thanks do you have have any more advise for me (guest) tell me as much as you can, please
thanks
another thing is this I normaly dont like to use stimulus to do it. I just do it only without nothing. so I tried an experement I went on the interent and found stimulus just to see if it made a difference and it responded within the minute. I did this three times one at night the next morning and 1 hour after that. all within a minute. but I never had problems in the past, without stimulus. now I have the nervousness that will I always need to be turned on for it to happen. will I have problems if I am not turned on.
thanks do you have have any more advise for me (guest) tell me as much as you can, please
thanks
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also you dont have to answer if you dont want
how old were you when this happened
and how long did it take to get healed
does the "part" just simply fully heal or does it have some insensitivity still(even minor)
how old were you when this happened
and how long did it take to get healed
does the "part" just simply fully heal or does it have some insensitivity still(even minor)
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another thing I just thought of in question if I will get better can I have slow sex or will I be forced to have more aggressive sex just to make it work. will I be healed and be able to do that
please advise
please advise
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