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hi
i was suffering from phimosis and got circumcision done recently (2 weeks)....
i was going thru all the forums here n there which says circumcised men reduce masturbation coz of reduction in senstivity..
also i used to masturbate in prone position earlier and never masturbated normally coz it never worked for some reason even after trying for 20mins at length, in prone i ejaculate sometimes even under 5 mins....

now i read that prone is highly discouraged n after cc(circumcision), i dont think it stands a chance...

so is normal masturb. with cc easy to achieve or will i have to struggle??
i read about using lubricants, so dat means always i have to use lubes for masturb. ?? and how long should i wait before trying it, i mean got cc done 2 weeks back? i am really anxious n worried about trying normal with cc...
and got a date coming with my long distant gf in 3 weeks, should i try for some action dat time, more importantly, will i b able too..

plz help, really distressed.....

thanks

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sorry wanted to post this in sexual health problems, new member so got mislead.....

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Now that you have been circumcised, you'll have to get used to a totally new feeling for your penis.  This would be a good time to decide to give up prone masturbation.  Masturbating in the prone position is a cause of sexual dysfunctions that has been called Traumatic Masturbatory Syndrome in males.  Most males are able to masturbate conventionally (by hand) after a week of no orgasms.  You will like masturbating a lot better once you can do it with your hand.  ***this post is edited by moderator *** *** web addresses not allowed***

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hi
thx for the reply.....
its been almost 4 weeks now, n i am pretty much healed, so i tried masturbation with hand recently (earlier i used to do it prone), and i got a strong erection, but even after trying for 20-30 mins, cudnt ejaculate... tried 2-3 days in a row, no success.... am started to feel worried again... now i am circumcised, cant even do prone, and by hand also not working...
wat to do? please advise......
thx, looking forward to replies....
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Hi Walker987:

I don't think prone masturbation is as bad as that website claims, but I doubt that you can do it without a foreskin.

Adult circumcision is an irreversible, elective surgical operation to injure the penis and reduce its size and sensation by cutting off the nerve-laden sexually sensitive foreskin. Adult circumcision is usually performed with a general anesthetic however local anesthetic may be used. Like all surgical operations, it has risks of hemorrhage, infection, and surgical mishap. Loss of the penis has been known to occur. Death has been known to occur.

The cost is about $2,500. Circumcision may be carried out under local or general anaesthesia.

The foreskin is a complex double-layered structure composed of smooth muscle fiber, skin, mucosa, nerves, arteries, and veins. It is natural, normal, healthy, and its possession contributes to a sense of well-being. The foreskin has protective, sensory, sexual, and immunological functions. It is loaded with nerves and is the site of most of the penile sensation. The foreskin is a “specific erogenous zone.” The foreskin is essential for normal intercourse. Foreskin provides the additional skin needed to allow for penile expansion during erection. Amputation of the foreskin, which is an integral and important part of the penis has very significant adverse sexual and emotional effects.
Nature put the foreskin there to provide at least fourteen functions:

1. to cover and bond with the synechia so as to permit the development of the mucosal surface of the glans and inner foreskin.
2. to protect the infant's glans from feces and ammonia in diapers.
3. To protect against disease causing pathogens.
4. to protect the glans penis from friction and abrasion throughout life.
5. to keep the glans moisturized and soft with emollient oils.
6. to lubricate the glans.
7. to coat the glans with a waxy protective substance.
8. to provide sufficient skin to cover an erection by unfolding.
9. to provide an aid to masturbation and foreplay.
10. to serve as an aid to penetration.
11. to reduce friction and chafing during intercourse.
12. to serve as erogenous tissue because of its rich supply of erogenous receptors.
13. to contact and stimulate the G-spot of the female partner.
14. to produce pheromones to excite the female sexual partner.

It is normal to keep the foreskin forward over the head for protection.

Circumcision is an injurious, damaging, destructive, and harmful surgical operation that cuts through nerves and blood vessels that feed blood to the penis. The operation is irreversible. You will have the rest of your life to mourn your loss of your erogenous foreskin.
The foreskin is filled with nerves that make it the most sensitive part of the human body, therefore, cutting into it is very painful.
It takes about six weeks to recover from an adult circumcision. One should avoid getting erections. Oral ketoconazole may help to prevent postoperative erections.

One will never fully regain the lost protection, sexual function, sensation, and sexual pleasure, even if one restores the foreskin.

If you should become interested in restoring your foreskin, a search on the Internet for “foreskin restoration” will produce lots of information.



Masturbation

Masturbation is relaxing, pleasant, enjoyable, harmless, healthy, normal, and contributes to restful sleep if done before bedtime. Masturbation relieves pain from overfilled seminal vesicles. Frequent masturbation prevents wet dreams. Regular ejaculation is associated with better prostate health. Masturbation is a great stress reliever.

One may masturbate as much or as little as one wishes. One may do it in any place where one has privacy. There is no upper or lower age limit for masturbation.

The internally lubricated movable nerve-laden foreskin and its gliding action is an important aid to masturbation.

Circumcision was introduced to unforeskin the penis and make it impossible to masturbate. It did not stop masturbation but it made it harder to do and perhaps less enjoyable.

How one does it depends on whether one has an internally lubricated movable foreskin that glides up and down the shaft or whether you have been unforeskinned.

If you are foreskinned, then all you need to do is glide your foreskin back and forth. The foreskin is internally lubricated with lymphatic fluid and glides without friction. The numerous nerves inside the foreskin are stimulated by the motion and generate pleasurable sensations.

Long and vigorous masturbation can cause the foreskin to become edematous and swollen, which is painless and not a cause for alarm. The edema usually goes down within about 24 hours. Pulling back too hard is apt to stretch the frenulum and may tear it.

If you are unforeskinned and the skin is taut and immovable, then you will need some lubrication and you need to slide your hand up and down the shaft. You will likely injure yourself without lubricant. Friction burns are common when a male without foreskin masturbates without lubricant. Some lubricants are baby oil, vegetable oil, personal lubricant, soapy water, and saliva.

It is common for an unforeskinned male, who has been deprived of his internally lubricated foreskin, to have friction burns if he does not apply external lubricant.
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