I need this question answered. Ok so I am a boy and I am 14 and want sex but I understand that it's wrong at a young age but are girls wanting this same thing? And do a lot of girls master bait around my age ?
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Some girls want some kind of sex with some particular boys but it isn't safe to assume they want the whole package. Many girls do masturbate by your age (though not as many as boys) and are much more likely to accept mutual masturbation with a boy they like than full-on sex. (There used to be a euphemism for mutual masturbation between boy and girl: it was called 'petting', or even 'petting to climax.' It has the obvious advantage of not risking pregnancy (or even of passing on disease) so it is a reasonable way for a young boy and a (_willling_) young girl to engage in physical relations.
Good luck :-)
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Yes, it is normal to want sex. And yes, a lot of 14 year old girls wan it also. And yes, a lot of girls masturbate.
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No, it is absolutely normal during your sexual maturation to begin to desire intercourse. As your mind comes around to having more and more sexual thoughts and desires, your body is asking for the physical sensation s to go with it. If you have seen or heard of what intercourse entails, your mind will begin to flood you with desire to experience it. This is normal and actually desirable from the standpoint of reproduction of our species. We are programmed to want to reproduce, right? So, wanting, thinking about, desiring, dreaming of having sex with or being inside someone's body is to be expected. Your age doesn't really matter since everyone matures at their own pace.
The most important thing is to conduct yourself in an honorable and safe way in the face of these overwhelming desires. You can cause (and get into ) a lot of societal and personal troubles if you allow yourself to act on your growing desires. Sex and mating is a delicate dance, and trying not to hurt those who might give in or submit to your needs is paramount here. It's really hard to go back later to make amends for making someone feel used.
That said, you MAY luck out and find a female (or another male) who will gladly explore sex with you as a fellow "explorer", but this must always be consensual for you both. A lot depends on your social and family situation, but most of us have to bide our time for a few years until we are able to safely and reasonably engage in intercourse with a willing -- and hopefully, loving -- partner. Keep learning how your body works and what your body can do sexually. Develop your sexual senses as best you can, and work to be the best, most considerate and thoughtful lover you can be.
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