I'm 15 and a boy I really won't to have sex with a boy and do it all should I be thinking about this and if so any tips?
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Thanks helped a lot. Also I'm not sure weather I am gay I would rather marry a woamn but have sex with a man does this mean I could be bi?
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By sex do you mean anal or just masturbating another boy, if its the latter that does not mean you are gay, when I was your age many of us boys wanked each other, it did not mean we were all gay, later those same boys started to have sex with girls and then married them and no longer had any sort of sex with other men.
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Same here, we got together and had all kinds of fun and contests. Never thought about stuffing one of the guys but there were some trees in the woods out back that had knotholes that were looking pretty inviting at times.
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Yes it is wrong you shouldn't tell a child its nothing wrong with them wanted to be with another boy unless you not sure about yourself
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Having sex could mean having mutual masturbation, giving or receiving oral or anal sex. Having sex has nothing to do with love so it is not wrong. Many societies and cultures have been doign this for ever. T,here si nothing wrong with it. Societies make up rules and expect that if you go outside the rules it is wrong. Having sex with the same sex is not wrong and when you are in your teens to 20's it is all about exploring what you like and not like. Having mutual sex with same sex as long as it is consensual does not make you gay. I know from experiences that sexuality is an open and free flowing. I have had MFM, MMM, MM, MFF sex or even relationships and I accept it and open to it. Don't worry but be safe and explore what you want and need
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Excellent advise given here. Your feelings are normal and natural in this stage of life, Most boys at this age have developed physically as a young man. If you find a good same aged friend you can trust, there is nothing wrong with helping each other explore and enjoy mutually pleasurable sex together. You should start slow and progress in stages with the sex you enjoy together.. If you both enjoy kissing and cuddling and that seems natural to you, then let nature take its course and advance to mutual masturbation and oral sex. Maybe consider waiting on anal intercourse until you both reach 16. Learn about how to safely prepare and engage in anal intercourse with educational resources and discuss it with each other so it will be a good and pleasurable experience together. If you and your friend have not yet been sexually active with other people, you could safely enjoy the freedom and pleasure of sex without condoms and freely exchange each other's semen if you so desire..
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I think you just gave a perfect answer to his question. I have been asked this question in a different setting before a few years ago by a parent who found their son having intimate relations with another boy his age. The father did not know what to do or say to his son. He knew that I had sexual relations with other males when I was at the university that we both attended years in the past. I gave him very similar response. I informed him that he could talk to his son about this but since he was 15 he should be able to make his own decision versus as a parent trying to tell him what he should or should not be doing.
Then in response to the first question. Take it slow do not force the other boy/young man to do anything he does not feel comfortable with . I do not know what he meant when having sex.Did that mean both masturbating together, touching either other penises while masturbating, oral sex or wanting more. He did not specify what he wanted to do. Either way he should take it slow and only do what they both wanted to do. I know by the time I reached his age I had already done anal and oral but that was with a friend that I trusted. Some young males do not want to kiss but that is ok, but if you do make sure that you also hug and touch /carress each other. This same applies to if it is male and female.Go slow and relax it is natural
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