Me and my girlfriend have been hooking up for about a month. We were both virgins when we met so sex is new to us both. But I can get her off over and over again and I just cant seem to finish. I had no idea this problem existed. I was so scared that I would cum to fast my first time and I found out that I have a "problem". She loves it because we can go until she's had her fill. But its really frustrating to go at it for hours and still feel like I need more cause i never finished. Example. tonight she came over and I we were just teasing each other for like 30 minutes. and then when I went to finger her she said no cause she wanted to get me off first... We resized after an hour of a blow job (which she is actually very good at) that we couldn't have sex because we forgot the condoms. so she said well I want to get you off anyways and it took another full hour. she couldn't suck anymore and was just using her hands at the end because her jaw was so sore. Thankfully I did eventually finish. but is there something I'm doing wrong? I do masturbate pretty often but that takes no longer than 30 minutes.. and head feels better so Idk why I wouldn't cum from it. When we have sex if I want to finish I just have to wait till she has enough and then she trys to get me off. wich sometimes it dose not happen. Any advice with this would be nice. I just want to be able to have a quickie or something. I just turned 18 and definitely have no problems getting an erection and have no lack of testosterone. Also I am very attracted to her so thats no it either.
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I really don't know what to say with that one huh. Most men (young especially) I always thought have an easier time getting off when doing thing with a partner than maturbating. I'd say all you need to do is experiment a little and figure out what really feels good to you, it's interesting because usually the female has a harder time getting an orgasm lol but everyone's different..maybe your just nervous or you just really need to try new things and different positions. I'm sorry I may not be much help but I really think you just need to figure out what you like :) I mean what women doesn't like longer sex though? haha!
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I tried not taking care of myself all week.. caved twice.. but got off 2 times in 2 hours.. then next day we had sex ( hard sex ) for 3 hors and took me forever to get the first one off and never got to the second one. I actually lost my boner after bout 45 minnutes into the second nut so we just stopped.. but i think im making progress
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you still like this?
im 20. iv been with 9 girls and iv had a lot of sex and for example i would say that out of 100 sexy times that iv came about 20 times. iv no idea why. when i get off on my own sometimes i cum in 5 mins, sometimes i dont at all.
it is sh*t how they finish and dont want anymore and im left fellin sh*t and she feels like she cant satisfy me.
and as for blowjobs and handjobs.. iv never even came close to coming with them.. like seriously... not even close. i duno why im like this.
and as for figure out what really feels good. i have done EVERYTHING. nothin has made me come more. and yeah BriezyJo is right but what guy wants sex where he doesnt come.
sorry dude, i honestly dont know why its like this
im 20. iv been with 9 girls and iv had a lot of sex and for example i would say that out of 100 sexy times that iv came about 20 times. iv no idea why. when i get off on my own sometimes i cum in 5 mins, sometimes i dont at all.
it is sh*t how they finish and dont want anymore and im left fellin sh*t and she feels like she cant satisfy me.
and as for blowjobs and handjobs.. iv never even came close to coming with them.. like seriously... not even close. i duno why im like this.
and as for figure out what really feels good. i have done EVERYTHING. nothin has made me come more. and yeah BriezyJo is right but what guy wants sex where he doesnt come.
sorry dude, i honestly dont know why its like this
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My partner has the same problem (23). We have only been together for 3 months and previous to me he had never really had a steady supply of sex so he did used to masturbate quiet a lot. What we have discovered is he has been making himself cum the same way for years and gotten so used to it that nothing else works. What we have been trying is we put a ban on him making himself cum! Lol Just so that he can desensitise himself from that routine.
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It's because you need to find things that really push you over the edge. That's the same way I was, i would go for a couple hours sometimes, and by the time i would finish the girl was long since over it. Cumming more than once has a way of making the vagina really sensitive. But then my last couple girlfriends have been older than me 27 and 24, i'm only 18 like you, and they have really changed the way I have sex . It can't be boring, especially during blowjobs. Your mind has to be in the right place from what she does, the way she looks at you or touches you. Just find out what really excites you and be creative, it's having fun, not a challenge or something like that. When you can have sex for hours and both of you are still into it than you know that you're having fun
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I have the same thing with my boyfriend and what I do with him is I give him oral and get him kinda close so by the time he gets inside me it gives me enough time to cum and then he with cum. Or u can try master bating more so that u are used to cumming faster.
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