My boyfriend can only ejaculate when we are having sex doggystyle. At first I didnt care bc I like that position, but the more I fall in love with him the cheaper it feels. He said he has always been this way and can only finish when he rubs on my cervix in that position. Any ideas about why it is this way or other positions that may work?
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I have the same issue!! Like you, I really like the position, and if I'm honest, it is most likely to make me cum too. The thing that bothers me is that I now feel much more emotion about sex with him, and I want to see his face, his eyes and hold him. i dont want to spend the next 40 years facing a brick wall!
In terms of solution - Well, we've only just started to tackle things. Firstly, talk to him about it. When he has accepted WHY it cant always be in the sure-thing position, you move onto 'rehab'. We're now trying to retrain his penis into responding to different stimuli. Its a hard slog, but its definately working. It might mean that during this period, he may not cum everytime (shock horror). Ive always put it down to habit, and the fact that ther take the easy option when it comes to, errrr........cuming.
If that doesnt work, he has to pay to have the bedroom walls re-decorated every 6-weeks.
Good luck kid
In terms of solution - Well, we've only just started to tackle things. Firstly, talk to him about it. When he has accepted WHY it cant always be in the sure-thing position, you move onto 'rehab'. We're now trying to retrain his penis into responding to different stimuli. Its a hard slog, but its definately working. It might mean that during this period, he may not cum everytime (shock horror). Ive always put it down to habit, and the fact that ther take the easy option when it comes to, errrr........cuming.
If that doesnt work, he has to pay to have the bedroom walls re-decorated every 6-weeks.
Good luck kid
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Ok, I am/was one of those guys to some extent.
I can also cum when the woman is laying on her stomach and I am on top as it is almost the same sensation as doggystyle. It is however more intimate as I can put my head beside hers and whisper how much I love her in her ear, kiss her face, lips and neck and more.
I advise your man try this and if it works you can make love in a variety of positions but allow him to cum in one of the positions that work for him.
I can also cum when the woman is laying on her stomach and I am on top as it is almost the same sensation as doggystyle. It is however more intimate as I can put my head beside hers and whisper how much I love her in her ear, kiss her face, lips and neck and more.
I advise your man try this and if it works you can make love in a variety of positions but allow him to cum in one of the positions that work for him.
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doggy style is the girl is on all 4s and getting banged from behind like how dogs have sex
now if u wanna have him cum in other ways just try NEW postions that u find on the internet
doggy style is the girl is on all 4s and getting banged from behind like how dogs have sex
now if u wanna have him cum in other ways just try NEW postions that u find on the internet
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I'm a boy and have the same problem.
In fact, I can only ejaculate when I'm on my knees (or standing) !
doggy style is one possibility some others are :
the girl is sitting on a chair or a couch, me kneeing on the ground
the girl is lying on her back on a table, me standing by, holding her heels in my hands.
In both cases, we can see each other face and cum together since it's very easy to stimulate her clitoris in this position.
In fact, I can only ejaculate when I'm on my knees (or standing) !
doggy style is one possibility some others are :
the girl is sitting on a chair or a couch, me kneeing on the ground
the girl is lying on her back on a table, me standing by, holding her heels in my hands.
In both cases, we can see each other face and cum together since it's very easy to stimulate her clitoris in this position.
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my husband of 30 plus years is 62 !! He too can only cum when we have sex from behind / doggy style...or when i jerk him off...seems i have to do all the work...he can't thrust much either so i'm thinking its his meds and his age :-
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I know that’s the quickest way for my guy to finish and I can have just as much control over the speed and depth that he can. Everything feels better in that position. It’s usually our “last lap” position or great for quickies. If you’re looking for another position that may provide you and your man with a similar sensation, put your legs on his shoulders in missionary. It’s basically doggy but you’re on your back.... so you’re a turtle. He can push on the back of your thighs for leverage. It feels great. Sex does take some training for both people. My man is lucky I’m bossy and very comfortable with myself and needs. Communication is key in the sack.
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