Dude, my girlfriend told me she was bi after about 22 months of dating, it took me by surprise but I accepted it and told her I still love her. If anything I think she loves me more now :-) xx
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i have the same problem just found out about it but i think the best thing to do is to mull it over alone find peace with yourself and realize although she is bi or was bi she still has you and she chose you over a girl
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My girlfriend also told me she was bisexual, I have no problem with it but when she tells me she is dating a girl at the same time with me I start to feel weird. She has told me that if i want her to she will break up with her and I do because I guess I feel jealous but I don't want to make her do anything she doesn't want to. I know people who are gay and people who are lesbian but I don't know that many bisexuals so i do not know if for her having two partners is just a "bonus" or if she can live with one or the other, I just don't know how different ones mindset is concerning relationships is when bisexual. We love each other but I have depression and think of the worst a lot. In my head I think that someone who is gay will look for a man to spend the rest of his life with and a lesbian the same but like I have said I do not know about someone who is bisexual, if they are looking for one person they love. "love" to me just does not seem like having two people at once because the bisexual people I do see are the "s**m of the earth"(It's just what my father would say, I have no harsh feelings towards anyone's lifestyle it's just not the one I want to live at this time in my life) type and have two partners or more and just sit around and do drugs and have sex, so my opinion is based off of them and that they are just bisexual because they want to sleep around and like I have said, its not the life I want to have now, I want to have a serious relationship. Could someone shed some light on my misinformation/lack of any for the situation.
Sorry about anything I have said, I'm just ignorant about the situation of bisexuals and their thought about relationships and love.
Sorry about anything I have said, I'm just ignorant about the situation of bisexuals and their thought about relationships and love.
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I am a guy. I had a sexual relationship with a girl for about a year. The following year was cold, with a few dates and such. The year after that I decided to tell her how I felt about her and we took steps into a relationship. 2 months in and she tells me she had a girlfriend in the 'following year'. This was an incredible shock. I didn't know what to think. I have tried to rationalize it thus: My pride was hurt firstly because I had no idea about it, but it seemed everyone else did! Secondly, she had never had an orgasm with a man (she had been clinically diagnosed as 'sexually cold'). Our sex was always great, but when she said she had actually managed to have orgasms with this ex girlfriend it made me seriously question myself and my sexual capabilities.
The fact she was with a girl doesn't bother me. I have friends and family who are, so I am not unfamiliar with it. It's just I do feel jealous in terms of sexual competitiveness, because i feel girls understand each-other more. I want to pleasure her as much as she did. I am pretty sure it's just a matter of direction, something she has always been good with, and the fact we like each-other so strongly will pull us through. But this has happened just recently and I have an unbelievable amount of physical nerves shooting around my body and I am really struggling.
It does help to have others out their share their experiences through this internet medium. I see myself as being quite fortunate in that sense.
The fact she was with a girl doesn't bother me. I have friends and family who are, so I am not unfamiliar with it. It's just I do feel jealous in terms of sexual competitiveness, because i feel girls understand each-other more. I want to pleasure her as much as she did. I am pretty sure it's just a matter of direction, something she has always been good with, and the fact we like each-other so strongly will pull us through. But this has happened just recently and I have an unbelievable amount of physical nerves shooting around my body and I am really struggling.
It does help to have others out their share their experiences through this internet medium. I see myself as being quite fortunate in that sense.
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No one chooses their sexual orientation. Ask anyone of them and they will tell you they started experiencing it as a child. No one is going to choose a preference that automatically makes them the minority and object of hate and disgust for some one. No one enjoys being ostracized.
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Ok having a girl who's bi is like awesome I don't know why you other people are beign worried that your girls like other girls.....I actually convinced my girl to kiss and make out with other girls and now Im aiming for a 3 some having bi gf is awesome
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I have a similar problem to this, just about yesterday my gf of 6 months who i love, told me last saturday her and her bff made-out while they were topless and were kissing on each other chest. While she doesnt see it as a problem, i strongly do. Before people start getting mad wondering if im against gays/lesbian/bi , i am not and strongly support them. I just can see myself with someone who can openly do that with the opposite sex especially while being in a relationship. As of right now i think its cheating, regardless if its boy or girl, she doesnt think its cheating but i do. She said she loves me and is sorry and it wont happen again but i have mix feelings about her and am not sure if i want to stick around. Am i wrong for acting like this?
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Okay guys we need to get a few things straight!
Ur dream isn't to have a bi gf it's to have a threesome and rightfully so however, dating a bi girl dosent gaurantee this it ups ur chances that is all I know more then a few people that are bi that only date one person at a time myself included
If they leave u for another relationship, they are leaving u for something else not just a different set of plumbing so try not to get down on yearly because u think u weren't man enough for them or girls are better.... They are different, I love the boys coz they a strong dominant and all those other biological reason, they tend to have a more chilled way of looking at things and they have a different humour.
I love the ladies because the are Intense I'm more dominant and well u guys understand all the reason to love ladies. It's not just about sex
It's about emotional connection.
Neither is better they are both amazing in their own way try not to be competitive with it because u can gaurantee a few things girls can't a visa versa
There is nothing wrong with dating a bisexual, but u need great communication to make it work, I broke up with a guy that was amazing in bed and every other area because I felt pressure to decide, I broke it off because I needed the space to do so and didn't want to risk hurting him, no I look at it (I've accepted I'm bi) and I can tell u I would take him back in a second and happily spent the rest of my life with him and never sleep with girls again!
Give them space and this isn't a reason or excuse for an open relationship I just mean give them support, communicate and don't judge.
Your gf loves u.... It's the something if she left u and started dating another guy... There is no difference treat it the same!
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Would I be right in my assumption u haven't had the discussion of what is cheating and what isn't? Thing is your both right...
When u start to get exclusive u need to have the 'what's cheating' chat
I didn't care if my partner had a kiss with a mate because they were both drunk and being silly. I'm cool with it because there isn't anything in it
but I'd get upset if she flirt with someone because to me it's intimate and that's cheating
Anything past a drunk pash to me is cheating.... This is my definition not urs. I'm telling u so u understand everyone's is different
Once u set the guidelines u know what u can trust and there is no excuse. Have a proper chat and aggree on what is and isn't so u know u can trust her, if u don't have the trust ur doomed from the start!
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You all are crazy! It's awesome! I let my gf tell me stories of past sexual encounters and hope someday I can have a threesome. Man up already and get your penis all over that.
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Read all this stuff about it doesn't matter. Blah blah. In my experience dating bisexuals. They can't be with one sex. That's why they are bi. They may tolerate it for a while, but that's it. Just because you haven't caught them cheating doesn't mean they dont. They may have a bf and gf and they will be jealous of one another
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I found out my girlfriend was bi 16 months into our relationship, I was caught off guard. these past few days I've been depressed because I know that she loves me, and I'm just not comfortable with it. I know that she wouldn't just leave me for a girl. idk hopefully my stress and depression will blow over
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