First off surgery and recovery werent to aweful bad im at 5 weeks post op and outa bed, driving, shopping, swimming almost 100% back to normal except one thing so heres the question.  Why am i so deeply low?  My appetite is gone, im not sleeping yet beyond tired, i feel inadequate, and less of a woman.  Among other things.  I was told its normal and would "go away" but, its not in fact its getting worse and truly i have a wonderful life, 4 kids, great husband ect i have no reason to feel these horrible emotional downfalls.  Has anyoe else had them post op?  What helped it get better?  Im 37 and refuse pharmaceutical remedies so yeah any insight?  Ideas?