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Well I have a disease called lupus (autoimmune...attacks immune system causes swelling hair loss skin rashes etc) and when I was pregnant once before I had flares and swelling as soon as I got pregnant.I had an abortion reccomended by my doctor who though it was a bad idea to have children while being sick.after the abortion the disease went into remission and I hadn't have anymore swelling flare ups. Well I normally have regular periods (every 27 to 31 days usually lasting 5 days or more) I was expecting my period on the 27th of this month and my fiance' and I had sex on the 17th (the day after or of my ovulation and he did ejaculate in me srry if that's too much info) and on the 21st I got what I believed to be my period only it lasted about 2 days and it was really light.nowhere near as heavy or as thick as normal.afterwards I had light pinkish discharge very light and Now I'm experencing extremely bad back pains..I've recently had two bad flares..I'm having dark brown discharge..cramps..headaches..upper leg/thigh cramps..I'm using the bathroom a lot and I have really bad excessive cravings (wierd food at weird times and lots of it) its too early to take a pregnancy test seeing as I'm not officially late on my period but I would greatly appreciate some advice..I desperate to get pregnant and I really feel like I am but I don't know...please help..thanks so much.God bless