maybe a vaginal tear?

Hello!

I'm a virgin, but I've had occasional pain when I pee for years. It feels like the connective tissue between my rectum and vagina is torn or something; it mostly hurts when I pee, because the pee makes it burn. I don't actually know if it's a tear or cut, but that's how it feels. When it comes, it'll last for a couple days. This happens maybe once every month or so.

I don't know if this might be related, but I scrub pretty hard when I wipe after going to the bathroom. Could I have torn the skin down there a while ago, and I keep reopening that tear every now and then?

And I'm not sure if this is related either, but it hurts to have a finger in my vagina. Oral sex is fine, and fingering on the outside is fine, but a finger actually up inside hurts.



Thanks for the help!