Whenever me and my girlfriend start to "play", it's always the same result...
First, I start to rub her vagina, and getting her a little riled up, and then i play around with her clit...after doing that for a little while in different ways, I start to finger her...at first, she says it feels really good, but then as I continue to do it, she says to do it faster, harder, and such...so I do..and everytime she has to stop me because her stomach hurts, or feels weird..i told her to try to endure the feeling, and she's tried..she just can't... she says it either hurts, or just feels unpleasantly weird..i wait a little while for her to calm down, and then I try again...then she tells me her vagina hurts when I touch her and her stomach is hurting...
I don't know what I'm doing wrong, I'm not doing it extremely hard, but not too soft either...it feels great to her, until she gets that weird feeling, and then it starts to hurt, and I can't even touch her there anymore...
I wash my hands, I'm very clean when I do this, I don't have sharp finger nails or dry skin..I don't know what's going on..
I read that girls feel weird when they're about to orgasm or whatever, but after she feels weird, I can't even touch her because she says it hurts.
Am I doing something wrong, or what?
First, I start to rub her vagina, and getting her a little riled up, and then i play around with her clit...after doing that for a little while in different ways, I start to finger her...at first, she says it feels really good, but then as I continue to do it, she says to do it faster, harder, and such...so I do..and everytime she has to stop me because her stomach hurts, or feels weird..i told her to try to endure the feeling, and she's tried..she just can't... she says it either hurts, or just feels unpleasantly weird..i wait a little while for her to calm down, and then I try again...then she tells me her vagina hurts when I touch her and her stomach is hurting...
I don't know what I'm doing wrong, I'm not doing it extremely hard, but not too soft either...it feels great to her, until she gets that weird feeling, and then it starts to hurt, and I can't even touch her there anymore...
I wash my hands, I'm very clean when I do this, I don't have sharp finger nails or dry skin..I don't know what's going on..
I read that girls feel weird when they're about to orgasm or whatever, but after she feels weird, I can't even touch her because she says it hurts.
Am I doing something wrong, or what?
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hi, ok
i doubt your doing something wrong . so i would recommend she try to masturbating and and finger herself. because this would show for sure whats happening. If she doesnt have the same feeling then it just might be you... but i doubt think its you, it's probably the fact that she hascertain personal fear or she is unconciously afraid of what will happen. though there is no way to know for sure
this is my perspective...
i doubt your doing something wrong . so i would recommend she try to masturbating and and finger herself. because this would show for sure whats happening. If she doesnt have the same feeling then it just might be you... but i doubt think its you, it's probably the fact that she hascertain personal fear or she is unconciously afraid of what will happen. though there is no way to know for sure
this is my perspective...
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For the guy having issues with his girl, I don't think there is anything to be too worried about. You are doing fine, but I would suggest adding some lubrication. It could be that she has a problem getting "wet" or at first things are fine, but then she dries up. I have this issue, and adding lube makes a world of difference. I use lube when I play myself, and my boyfriend uses it on me...I actually prefer a bit of lube over my natural lubrication. I can't produce enough for sex to be comfortable.
Give it a try and see how it goes. Lube is cheap and really will help.
-Canadian Girl
Give it a try and see how it goes. Lube is cheap and really will help.
-Canadian Girl
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