Hi, 27 and having a sex problem. Already seen a couple of doctors and tried a few different meds to increase my sex drive, but nothing seems to work. What to do to increase my libido and have a normal sex drive? Any suggestions? Are they still any meds I can take to increase my sex drive? Really don`t know what is wrong with me and how to solve this problem.
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Hi, well, you didn`t mention those meds you have already tried. You didn`t even say if you`re a boy or a girl. Because you have so many meds different for men and women. I heard about some libido enhancers, that could increase your sex drive. So you have Provestra, Vigorelle (a herbal cream activated by touch, so called women`s viagra), Female RX Oil, MagnaRX Transdermal Lotion (herbal based). Guess you`ve already tried to increase your sex drive with Viagra? But why med, anyway? You have so many simple, natural ways to increase sex drive in no time. Personally, I would rather eat some plants or do some yoga stuff, than using meds.
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Im relation to poor sex drive somebody mentioned in another topic which I have quoted
Elmo01 wrote:
give these a try, I know I am as soon as I get a hold of that stuff, it sounds great :D
Elmo01 wrote:
depending on ur age - certain things do work. for me these 2 things work great
Korean Ginsing - - causing MASSIVE orgasms, taking a little bit for me - i feel the effects in about an hour - once i do, no matter where i am, i HAVE TO GET OFF!! the sensation to masturbate is so overwelming, its amazing, almost an unbareble fire in my pants until i get satisfaction.
ginko biloba - - can cause blood circulation to genital areas, whinch in tern for me - causes easier climax and longer build, i can build up up up and i have learned to release when i want to. its amazing.
u can find these at most vitamin websites, and posibly at a locall GNC.
give these a try, I know I am as soon as I get a hold of that stuff, it sounds great :D
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lackofpleasure -
Save your money. There is nothing in any of those products that will make a bit of difference. Not a thing. What you're seeing here is what's known as the placebo effect. If someone believes something will give them more sexual prowess, better orgasms, more stamina, whatever, then that gives them confidence, and guess what: a little confidence is really all it takes to give you better orgasms, more stamina, yadda yadda yadda. Well, that and a partner who can keep up with you. ;-)
jaquenetta -
Help me understand your plight a little better. What I'm used to seeing in people with low sex drives is a kind of apathy towards sex. Sex just doesn't have a very high priority in some people's lives. They don't see the need to fix anything, because, eh, it just doesn't interest them.
You, on the other hand, seem to want to do something about it. But if you don't have a strong desire for sex, but you have a strong desire to have a strong desire for sex, where is that desire coming from? Is it a desire to be "normal"? You used the phrase "increase my libido and have a normal sex drive." What seems normal to you? Where did you get your concept of normalcy? Can you describe your current sex drive? How often do you want sex? Under what circumstances do you feel a desire for sex? How far out of your way would you go to have sex? What would you describe as an ideal sexual experience?
Save your money. There is nothing in any of those products that will make a bit of difference. Not a thing. What you're seeing here is what's known as the placebo effect. If someone believes something will give them more sexual prowess, better orgasms, more stamina, whatever, then that gives them confidence, and guess what: a little confidence is really all it takes to give you better orgasms, more stamina, yadda yadda yadda. Well, that and a partner who can keep up with you. ;-)
jaquenetta -
Help me understand your plight a little better. What I'm used to seeing in people with low sex drives is a kind of apathy towards sex. Sex just doesn't have a very high priority in some people's lives. They don't see the need to fix anything, because, eh, it just doesn't interest them.
You, on the other hand, seem to want to do something about it. But if you don't have a strong desire for sex, but you have a strong desire to have a strong desire for sex, where is that desire coming from? Is it a desire to be "normal"? You used the phrase "increase my libido and have a normal sex drive." What seems normal to you? Where did you get your concept of normalcy? Can you describe your current sex drive? How often do you want sex? Under what circumstances do you feel a desire for sex? How far out of your way would you go to have sex? What would you describe as an ideal sexual experience?
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Im a young, healthy, 24 year old male. I live with my attractive girlfriend of five years, yet I never want to have sex. She wants to have sex all the time, and I never feel in the mood. Im tired sometimes from work, and somewhat stressed, she claims she uses sex as an stress reducer, but im just not in the mood when Im tired or stressed.
This is causing major problems in our relationship. She threatens that if I dont seek help, our relationship is over, as she compares it to a friendship as of now.
She makes all the advances, and honestly it just slips my mind. I can go weeks without thinking about making a move... and she is constantly disapointed and feels unattractive. She says she gets more physical attention at the supermarket than at home. I dont know how to respond to this as I dont even notice Im not paying attention until shes yelling at me for going for weeks without sex. Is it possible I just have a low libido, is there anything I can do about this?
I didnt think it was an issue, but apparently its a big deal to her.
Any advice?
This is causing major problems in our relationship. She threatens that if I dont seek help, our relationship is over, as she compares it to a friendship as of now.
She makes all the advances, and honestly it just slips my mind. I can go weeks without thinking about making a move... and she is constantly disapointed and feels unattractive. She says she gets more physical attention at the supermarket than at home. I dont know how to respond to this as I dont even notice Im not paying attention until shes yelling at me for going for weeks without sex. Is it possible I just have a low libido, is there anything I can do about this?
I didnt think it was an issue, but apparently its a big deal to her.
Any advice?
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You have been together for 5 years, so there must have been something there in the first place.
It is an issue and it is a big deal, she needs to be intimate with you, period.
You need to get yourself back in the mood or she just may kiss you goodbye.
You are a young man and you get stressed out and tired just like anyone else, but you still need to set aside some time to be with your gf.
I am assuming that you two have no children together, that is a hugh stresser in itself. I am also assuming that your finances are in fairly good shape with no bill collecting phone calls to make you stress out. You probably have no medical issues that would impair you either.
Is there anything personnal going on with either you or a family member that would draw your attention elsewhere?
It sounds like it's all you, my friend.
Find the time for her, as once you get going again, i think you will be okay.
Go back five years ago and remember what made you fall in love with her, think about all those great times in bed together. When she yells at you, that will not make you turned on, so don't let it get to that point.
Come home from work, have a few "pops" relax and unwind a little. Start out by inviting her to take a shower with you, then go from there, i know you remember how it works!!!
You sound really comfortable in your relationship, probably to comfortable and don't look at your relationship of 5 years like a comfy old pair of jeans. She is a young women with needs and she obviously is waiting for you to get off your a** and take care of business. It's not rocket science you know? It is bothering you enough that you have come here and tried to find out what to do. You know what you have to do. Don't make a big deal out of it and don't make promises to her that you won't keep, just slowly get back into the saddle.
It is an issue and it is a big deal, she needs to be intimate with you, period.
You need to get yourself back in the mood or she just may kiss you goodbye.
You are a young man and you get stressed out and tired just like anyone else, but you still need to set aside some time to be with your gf.
I am assuming that you two have no children together, that is a hugh stresser in itself. I am also assuming that your finances are in fairly good shape with no bill collecting phone calls to make you stress out. You probably have no medical issues that would impair you either.
Is there anything personnal going on with either you or a family member that would draw your attention elsewhere?
It sounds like it's all you, my friend.
Find the time for her, as once you get going again, i think you will be okay.
Go back five years ago and remember what made you fall in love with her, think about all those great times in bed together. When she yells at you, that will not make you turned on, so don't let it get to that point.
Come home from work, have a few "pops" relax and unwind a little. Start out by inviting her to take a shower with you, then go from there, i know you remember how it works!!!
You sound really comfortable in your relationship, probably to comfortable and don't look at your relationship of 5 years like a comfy old pair of jeans. She is a young women with needs and she obviously is waiting for you to get off your a** and take care of business. It's not rocket science you know? It is bothering you enough that you have come here and tried to find out what to do. You know what you have to do. Don't make a big deal out of it and don't make promises to her that you won't keep, just slowly get back into the saddle.
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hi my name is T sreekanth my wife 36 yrs old thyroid pateing last two to three years
she had no interest in sex life is there any medicen to increase that
she had no interest in sex life is there any medicen to increase that
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Your 28, by now and still short in your batting. Your to young to feel this old . You need to eat better not salads but a good steak and potatoes dinner or lunch at least 3 time a week. Will take from there....later jem
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Jaquenetta,
I hope you have figured this out by now but what you most likely have is sexual performance anxiety. I spent the first 5 years of my marriage trying to figure out why I never wanted to have sex with my very attractive wife. I couldn't figure it out and I tried everything until I finally realized it was that I had developed a fear of having sex. In a nutshell you get anxiety about the thought of having sex for some reason, such as a fear of not being able to meet her expectations in bed, climaxing too quickly, or not being able to get or maintain an erection. The more you think about it and the more tense you make yourself the more likely it is for your fear to become reality. Before long you are avoiding sex altogether becuase you are so afraid of not being able to perform. It sounds crazy but it is all just in your head and has nothing to do with your sex drive. It probably started with a bad or embarrassing sexual experience. Mine happened when I was 17 and about to have sex for the first time but I got so nervous that I couldn't get it up. Thankfully most guys with this problem never had such a tramatic experience and the problem is very manageable to overcome with a little therapy and a supportive partner. And quitting porn and masterbating if you have substiuted sex with that will help a lot too! Good luck!
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I hate that everything has to be about sex all the time. I've already done it all and I'm tired of it. Its my husband who wants me to take something to increase my sex drive. He insist I go to the doctor to ask for something. And I'd rather take something to increase my libido than dread having sex with my husband. It wouldnt be so bad if he didn't ask for it every single day. And get mad when I don't want to. I don't have any problems once I get started but it takes my husband so long to finish that I'd rather just skip the whole thing. I'm to freaking old for this.
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