sex with an overweight woman

Having sex with overweight person is not that different from having it with a person of normal weight. However, certain positions aren't very fulfilling and may make awkward moments. It's very important to have good stamina and you have to be ready to delve into the act with your heart and every single muscle. There is one thing that can help you during intercourse with an overweight woman. The amount of pillows that you will need depends on how overweight your lover is. Place a couple of pillows under her buttocks until her vagina is at an angle where penetration is made easy. In a kneeling position, balance on your hands and go for it. Take things slowly and make this very pleasurable for you and your partner. This position is great no matter what size she is. The other position is my favorite. Get her to lie on her side with knees bent and again, you can use pillows. You can place a few of them under her hip but if the pillows make her uncomfortable, then don't use them. To make things more interesting, you can lift one of her legs and place it on your shoulder. I hope that I have helped you with these tips and that both of you will enjoy.

I have been with my partner over ten years and she is very large, but we really click and are so well matched. I am not that well endowered (just under 6") and for me sex has never been that satisfying, to the point where when we first met I was carrying extra weight myself, not a huge amount, but I decided to loose it anyway as I had read that in guys extra abdo fat can reduce the length of the penis, I did this and it really didn't change a thing, the only position for deep penetration is rear entry which gets a bit boring after a while, other positions can really make her hip and lower back hurt and because of my inadequacies positions like her on top, because of her thighs and butt I keep slipping out. Sex was never fullfilling for me, I had an affair for a while with my assistant and although my partner never knew I couldn't keep this up because of the guilt so I have resided my self to a relationship that is less than physical, we still have sex, but not as much as she would like, but it has really become like mowing the lawns or cleaning the gutters... a chore not a pleasure so unless your well hung this is potentially an issue for you and you will need to make sure your relationship is more than physical as you will probably not find the sex all that fulfilling.

haveing sex with skinny girls is gross. girls need to have some meat on them. cushion for the pushin!

I have experience I would like to share. I am 49 years old , (5'6",160lbs with 6" penis) I was married to a very skinny woman (5'4" 96lbs tiny breasts , hips and butt), after our breakup I was dating much younger "Amazon" woman (5'9" 250lbs and very muscular) and I now have a "chubby" girlfriend (5'2" a70lbs 38dd breasts , belly roll and thick butt) and sex is A LOT different with women of different body types!
My skinny ex wife was so easy to have sex with and I could give her multiple orgasms almost every time. She was so small any and every possible position worked for us and I had to take it easy and not go too deep into her in some positions. We had 3 babies, all C section and her vagina was very tight with a large clit and long thin labia. She was happy with sex once a night every other night. We had a very satisfying sex life for both of us.
My young "Amazon' woman really surprised me. She had 2 babies naturally and had a nice snug vagina. She told me that large men liked to brag to her about their large penises and she would refuse to have sex with them because she did not enjoy large penises. She was athletic and strong so that was very exciting for me after 20 years of a relatively week little woman. I took cialis and we would spend long weekends having sex several times a day.We had sex in several positions regularly and we both orgasms every time and enjoyed each other very much.
Now I am with a lady I love but she is chubbier that I would like. I enjoy touching her everywhere. Her large breasts and butt are a real turn on for me and even her belly roll feels good to touch but her vagina is looser that I wish. She had ! baby c section, 3 babies naturally and a big husband with a large penis. She is so thick that we can only use a few positions. She likes it from behind and with her on top with her leaning over me and my penis in firm contact with her small clit. Sometimes I worry that she is going to break me off she pushes so hard. She Loves the way my slim penis gets so hard and gives her clit stimulation. I can touch her big butt and see, touch, and suck her breasts as they hang down and that is what turns me on...not her loose vagina. She also likes me doggie style and my stimulation is mainly from seeing her and touching her butt, not vaginal friction. Her vagina is big enough that we sometimes place a vibrator inside her vagina to give stimulation and take up some of the extra space inside while we have sex in the missionary position. We enjoy sex almost every night, she likes me to wake her up early for sex and then drift off for another hours sleap in the mornings and doesn't mind if I get a "quickie" before work. She is happy because I can last a lot longer than her big ex husband ever could ,and I am always thinking of what makes her feel wanted and loved.
What kind of body is the best? I would have to say I would enjoy all the best features from the three of them. What kind of woman is the best? One who will love me for myselfself and remain faithful and true for the rest of my life. My chubby sweatheart.
I would still like to learn more ways of having sex with a "chubby" woman.

I was glad to see this posting!

I'm a "thick" woman. 5'10" 230lbs. Because I was a dancer as a kid I'm relatively flexible, even for my weight. But there are quite a few positions I love.

1. On the counter: I sit up on the counter, then my guy stands in front of me. This allows me to push against the cupboards and counter to counteract his thrusting.

2. Knees to shoulders: I can put both my feet behind my head, but for the women who are less flexible the man places his hands behind her knees and gently presses down, depending on her level of comfortability.

3. From behind: This is personally one of my favorite because it allows him to hit my g-spot while I stimulate my clit.

4. Edge of the bed: He sits on a chair/ couch/ bed/ any place that allows him to sit up, it works best if he can lean back against a wall, chair back, etc. From there I straddle him. This allows for deep enough penetration while I still control the movements. It is also not painful for him when I want to ride him hard.

Hope this helps!

I am a thick woman and I get off almost everytime from my mans less than 6in penis. The postion that best works for us is me on my back with legs straight up in the air with a little of his help of course but I manage on my own, then he puts one leg in between mine so his foot is by my face and the other leg is in somewhat of a squat or kneeling. So its kinda like he is sideways on top. Oh he gets my G spot each time. The other is we have a small bench that he sits on with his back leaning against the bed and I straddle him. This one is great for the clit and more intimate being face to face. If none of these work do it doggy style. Hopes this gives you new ways to please your thicky thick mama.

ok... so i am 19 and i am 5'7 and weigh 265 lbs. My boyfriend is 20 and is 6'3 and weighs 160. We have a great sex life. i am a proportionate big girl and he does have a slight larger penis than average. he is from 7" to 9" depends on the day. but we have tried many positions and every one is good. try leaning her over the arm of a couch and if she has to, put her leg up as well. Doggie is good but instead of her holding herself up have her put her chest down which allows for deeper penatration. i love to ride him but i know i have to be careful. my boyfriend loves it when i reverse cowgirl. especially when i lean down towards his feet.he gets a great view of him inside me and as well as my ass but she can also lean back and if you are comfortable she can put her hands on your chest and slowly roll her hips. even though i am a big girl i am not big down there so some postions hurt. another girl on top position would be for her to face you lean down this would be a great time to kiss and you lift your pelvis and thrust with her. this is one that you have to be careful with because it gets in very deep. in missionary there are alot you can do as well as her. i like to lift my butt up and grind with his rhythm i know this feels great for me i can feel it hit every wall. :-) try not to be affraid and let her know that she wont break up. i hope this makes sense and enjoy.

This is a great post, and I'd like to share a few tips i learned from being with two large women.

I'm 5'9, 210, 5.5'-6' with thick girth. and my current girlfriend is 5'7, 215 size 14. Over all big women like it rough. I find the missionary position perfect for big girls. Gives u total control over power and "accuracy". You have to raise her hips though or use the pillows to reach her g spot. Some circular motion while ur in her will get her nuts. You'll have to hit different spots inside and see how she reacts. Her on on top provides the most thrusting power, but requires a redbull or two as you'll be bouncing her up and down (big girls are not athletic enough to ride ur for too long)

Anyway my sex life has Never been so great. I would've never imagined that bigger women are way more sexual than skinny ones.

I'm a bigger girl, my boyfriend is tall and thin, doesn't bother him much at all that I'm bigger, and I have gotten over the self esteem issues, he accepts me for who I am.

I was personally nervous of riding him, (cowgirl) but it was actually really good for me and him...

Another position that worked really, really well was me laying on my hip, my bf straddling one leg, I had the other leg in the air, and he would thrust in...this was really good, felt great!

Just a couple ideas for you.

And it is true, us bigger girls love sex just as much or more so than the skinny ones...I know I have a high Sex Drive anyways, and my bf loves it!

-Canadian Girl

CG thanks for the insight. I'm a skinnier guy myself but I like girls of all sizes. It makes me so sad that women try to lose weight when guys like women of all number of sizes. And yeah, you can be inventive with sizes no matter how big your guy is. We like the challenge!

Bluedog,

I would have to admit....I am trying to loose weight, but not cause my bf would even suggest that, but its for my own health problems. I'm not that big, but with my condition every pound I loose helps me, big time.

I know what you mean though, so many women feel the need to impress, but in reality they shouldn't worry so much.

I forgot to mention, my bf is above the average 6" size, but he isn't huge and we manage just fine....not to mention I can't take anything that big, like the other girl posted, I'm a bigger girl, but stuff down there is quite small I notice it when playing alone....I thought it was just me, but my bf also said the same thing. Some positions will hurt if he gets to deep, but we manage, and the challenge is always exciting!

-Canadian Girl

Both my wife and I are massively obese. We have sex just fine, she gets on top, pushes my belly out of the way, my belly sagging over my penis normally makes it VERY hard so hardness isnt an issue.

She bounces a few trimes and next thing you know we are good and happy

I am 5'6" 200 lbs, mostly muscle mass, lol. My penis is approximately 6" long. I have been in this buddy sex relationship for a couple of months now. Her sex drive is almost too much to handle but I am keeping up. She is a little taller (5'7") and heavier than me (250 lbs?), her butt and thighs are quite large and she has some belly fat. She only likes missionary although she will do on top from time to time which I have enjoyed with other women. She needs deep penetration which can be difficult at times. She gets wet fast but doesn't cum easy. Plus she is not too much into teasing, role playing, dressing up which I would enjoy more.

I am getting a little bored with missionary all the time and need to know some other positions that work with a) large butt and thighs b) average penis size. I have wanted to do side to side intercourse, my penis can barely touch her vaginal opening and the angle is wrong. I can't seem to do missionary with her legs up so I can watch my penis enter her vagina, the muscle movements feel awkward to me. Even with doggy style, her butt is just too large. Reverse cowgirl was ok but she don't like it. With her on top in general she is not very into it and quits. Mostly all we can do are variations of missionary.

I'm a big, blonde, with hair down to my waist, blue eyed woman, aged 46 years. I'm a UK size 28-30. I've been married for 13 years to a man who is 17 years older than me and has a small penis. He is not that keen on sex.

We've never had sex, our marriage is unconsummated. I've only had sex with one person, a former fiance, who was also a virgin, so I don't have much experience to go on. My husband and I had a real heart to heart recently and we both agreed that neither of us find the other sexually attractive.
What do I do now? I have a dildo, and with a lot of jerking about during the night, I can bring myself to orgasm. He sleeps in a separate room cos he snores very loudly.
I'd just like to feel a real penis inside me. He also can't take his own weight on his arms to lift himself above me in the missionary position. I just wish there was more. I've watched a few porn videos and everyone always has great, momentous orgasms, which I know aren't totally real, but I'm fed up.
I have big breasts, but he's not interested in those, I've never had children, nor has he. Any advice would be really appreciated. : :-(