My boyfriend wants to have sex

Hi there,

I think you should think about birth control options first. If you really want to then go for it but make sure you always have a back up method. I really think you should start on birth control AND use a condom JUST IN CASE. But if you find just using a condom is good then go for it and have fun. Safe sex is fun too. I hope this helps, good luck

hey! well so believe it or not, i am 14 and i have had my first time to! i am goin to say somin you might not wanna here: go with your heart. but remember always be safe. use a condom. and during the sexual intercourse, dont become aggressive and bratty if you dont come as much as him kk? This is a HUGE turn off to guys. Make sure that you keep in mind, you two are doing it becuz you love eachother. not becuz you want pleasure. And remember, you can get an abortion with the help of your friends and not letting your parents know, But that may cost thousands of dollars, so be safe,use a condom and if you REALLY want to be safe then use birthcontroll and one more thing: make sure the condom you are useing is safe and high quality and not likely to break. hope i helped!

well i am goin to say the one thing you probably dont want to here: i dont think you should have sex until you have a job and i dont meen one like at mcdonalds, i mean like a sierouse career. trust me. when i was your age, i made the mistake of getting pregnat at 14. then, just as told my boyfriend he walked out on me and never came back. he left me and my mom to take care of her along with juggiling school and trying to find ways of how to manage the expence of a child. i am now 19 and have a five yr old daughter. its not easy. so plz! take my advice and keep it!

Don't do it he might not have been checked and u could get a whole bunch of diseases from having under aged sex wait until both of u get checked ok tell him hes rushing things in ur relationship ok u neef to take it slow and injoy being a kid because before u know it it will be gone