ok i had sex for the first time we used a condom and it was bout two weeks ago the first time it wouldnt go in the we tried the next night and it did go in a little i stop when it was hurt. then we skip a night and tried agian and went farther then waited to bout Thursday and tried again it hurt really bad this more then others but i didnt bleed and still havent haad a period. what does this mean???
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It just means that you are tearing your hymen. Know that this is completely normal! My first time was very, very painful, but I didn't bleed. The next few times we had sex, it hurt less and less. This is just your body becoming used to having something in a place where not many things usually go. If it makes you more comfortable, you can buy a toy and use it on yourself to see how it feels. Just have your significant other be gentle and slow with you. This may take more time for you than it did for me, and there's a lot of it that has to do with how big his penis is. You did use a condom, so unless it broke, you are not pregnant. Just be careful and loving and gentle with each other, and this will become easier for you.
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