Hi everyone, I am 22 and my girlfriend is 20. We recently gave our virginity to each other on January 5th. We tried having sex 4 times. The first time we did it it was only for about 30 seconds, and the longest time we did it was for about 10 minutes. She is not on birth control, but every time we tried having sex we used a condom. Since it was both our first time we were more or less just experimenting with it since it's something neither of our bodies are used to just yet.
I never finished inside her, and although I did not water test the condoms after intercourse I did inspect them and none of them had broken or ripped. I did have some precum inside the condoms, however.
The reason I'm making this post is because about 5 days after intercourse (the 10th) she began feeling bloated and feeling like she has a lot of trapped gas which has become rather uncomfortable for her and the feeling still persists to this day (the 14th). Everything else about her is fine though, although she has been constantly turned on ever since we had intercourse.
We're not positive on when her last period was (We're gonna start keeping better track of her cycles) We know it was around Christmas though. She is usually pretty regular, however, so her period should be coming within another week or two.
I know the trapped gas could potentially be anything, but she usually has no PMS signs and her diet hasn't changed at all, so her feeling this way is really uncommon for her...
I feel at this point I'm pretty much freaking myself out for no reason, especially since it's still pretty much too soon for her to be showing signs if she somehow was pregnant, but you always hear that story about some couple who were on birth control and used a condom but somehow got pregnant the first time they had sex. I feel talking about it helps calm me down some and I don't really have anyone to discuss it with. My girlfriend isn't worried at all about possibly being pregnant, and I don't want to project my fears onto her because then she'll freak out too and I know that could potentially delay her period, so that's why I'm here.
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hey there, i really can't stop myself from telling you it's probablly not pregnancy.
you really need to set the mood for a romantic dinner and not even thionk about sex, try a hot shower or a bath and tell her after dinner what it means to be in a relationship with her and what you like about her.
then tell her you want foreplay but no sex.
take the time for both of you to explore her body then when u do start to finger her work on those muscles up inside her, don't be too worried about being soft on the pressing inside, work gentle then press firmer.. it could be that she has either had so much trapped gas inside her stomach or she might have a yeast infection.
just remember pregnancy also has warning signs like sensitive breasts and diet changes like not liking certian tastes and hunger for other foods.
hope this helps, if not you got a great night of learning more about each others body.
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I have a totally different answer. Brace yourself. Women can get pregnant just from sperm being close to the vagina, and yes it can happen the first time. Don't be too sure she's not pregnant. You both know that condoms alone are not 100% effective and she needs more birth control, if she's not already pregnant. Get her to a gyno ASAP and get her on the pill. This is from a woman who had been through the mill. I'm not trying to scare you. I hope it's not too late. I'm sorry to say that to you.
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