Hello,
I don't know where else to turn for this question and I figure after doing some research that this would be a proper place for it. I'm been with my g/f for 3 years and we are set to marry in a year. I love Sex and can't get enough, I'm able to hold my eraction for as long as I like and so it's very hard for me to cum/orgasm.
Now that I'm with my g/f I don't have sex as much sex as I would like because she says "it burns" and we usually end it within a few minutes and just finish each other off. I hate it! Because we don't live together yet it is very difficult to find the opportunity to have sex so we probably only have sex once a week if we are lucky. She usually starts off by telling me that I'm being too rough in the foreplay and I try my best to be gentle, then when I think I'm good to penetrate she starts telling me that it hurts/burns. We try for a few minutes and then she tells me to get out because she can't take the pain anymore. I usually get frustrated and she gets upset then I spend the rest of the time trying to comfort her.
I just don't know what else to do, we have tried different positions and I have asked her to go to the Doctor and get checked out but she refuses to go and just says that there is nothing wrong.
What should I do? I love her but the thought of continuing on for the rest of my life this way scares me.
Thanks
I don't know where else to turn for this question and I figure after doing some research that this would be a proper place for it. I'm been with my g/f for 3 years and we are set to marry in a year. I love Sex and can't get enough, I'm able to hold my eraction for as long as I like and so it's very hard for me to cum/orgasm.
Now that I'm with my g/f I don't have sex as much sex as I would like because she says "it burns" and we usually end it within a few minutes and just finish each other off. I hate it! Because we don't live together yet it is very difficult to find the opportunity to have sex so we probably only have sex once a week if we are lucky. She usually starts off by telling me that I'm being too rough in the foreplay and I try my best to be gentle, then when I think I'm good to penetrate she starts telling me that it hurts/burns. We try for a few minutes and then she tells me to get out because she can't take the pain anymore. I usually get frustrated and she gets upset then I spend the rest of the time trying to comfort her.
I just don't know what else to do, we have tried different positions and I have asked her to go to the Doctor and get checked out but she refuses to go and just says that there is nothing wrong.
What should I do? I love her but the thought of continuing on for the rest of my life this way scares me.
Thanks
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Hi there
It's right the same with me and my wife! And i thought as u do, what is wrong???!!!!
Well also tried diferent positions and so. Recently she went to doctor and now she is having treatment about it. Let's see if it solves the problem...
They detected that (don't know the right word) she was very fragil inside her belly, and that may be the reason.
If u want to change some ideas, write to me at ***
But i really think she sould go to the doctor.
Hope i could help!
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It's right the same with me and my wife! And i thought as u do, what is wrong???!!!!
Well also tried diferent positions and so. Recently she went to doctor and now she is having treatment about it. Let's see if it solves the problem...
They detected that (don't know the right word) she was very fragil inside her belly, and that may be the reason.
If u want to change some ideas, write to me at ***
But i really think she sould go to the doctor.
Hope i could help!
**edited by moderator**
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Hello,
Another possibility is that your girlfriend has vaginismus.
To have a better understanding of what this is, I highly recommend this site: vaginismus.com
There's usually nothing wrong with a woman's body that impedes her to achieve pentration but there can be psychological factors that make her muscles contract involuntarily and that can cause the pain or the burn when having intercourse. This is common among women and it's something that can be worked out as a couple. Just be supportive and eventually you'll achieve to enjoy sex.
Another possibility is that your girlfriend has vaginismus.
To have a better understanding of what this is, I highly recommend this site: vaginismus.com
There's usually nothing wrong with a woman's body that impedes her to achieve pentration but there can be psychological factors that make her muscles contract involuntarily and that can cause the pain or the burn when having intercourse. This is common among women and it's something that can be worked out as a couple. Just be supportive and eventually you'll achieve to enjoy sex.
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Hi
My gf is 8 months preg and it burns when we have intercourse. Especially then I cum inside my gf. She runs to the bathrrom and pees after we do it. Then i hear a scream of pain coming from the bathroom. My gf is sometimes afraid to do it sometimes. I don't know if it has anything to do with her pregnancy? And since i got her preg she has become tighter down there. My sperm has become chunky when i eject on my gf. I noticed this. I never pull the pud. My gf usually pulls my pud. Thanks would like sum good advice.
Alex
My gf is 8 months preg and it burns when we have intercourse. Especially then I cum inside my gf. She runs to the bathrrom and pees after we do it. Then i hear a scream of pain coming from the bathroom. My gf is sometimes afraid to do it sometimes. I don't know if it has anything to do with her pregnancy? And since i got her preg she has become tighter down there. My sperm has become chunky when i eject on my gf. I noticed this. I never pull the pud. My gf usually pulls my pud. Thanks would like sum good advice.
Alex
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Me and my wife have the same problem..... It has became a pretty big problem... All the doctors cannot find anything wrong. I have wondered what the hell to do. My wife refuses to drink much water, I told her that maybe it is the acid in all those soft drinks she is drinking. Just don't know... Against a wall....
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it could be this thing called vaginismus or vulvodynia.
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I have had the same problem with the burning sensation while having sex, I used a lubricant because I noticed it was more of a friction burn. After that, If I don't have or don't use it then I wouldn't enjoy sex do to the burning feeling.
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