My mom is trying to make me gain weight, but I don't want to.

I'm 14 years, 5'5 and I'm 46 kg I used to be 65 kg but I made diet and I lost a lot of weight. But then my period stopped because of weight loss and my mom toke me to a doctor and he told me I have to gai at least 10 kg to get my period back and to have baby's. And everyone who sees me tell me that I have to gain weight because I'm so skinny and guys don't like girsl that are skinny that much and because I look horrible because I'm so skinny I really don't feel that I'm skinny that much. I really like my body right now because I look like models and I can see my hipbones and I have collarbones, flat stomach, a thigh gap. I really think that I have a perfect body and I don't want to gain weight but everyone tells me to. What should I do? Please help me.

Hello, WOW, this is actually very common.

What Your Doing is very Unhealthy, there is a way that you can still have all of this (thigh gap, big boobs, collarbone look, and hipbones) Just dont gain fat potentially, gain something that i call mass, not fat but muscle. By Gaining muscle you probably think that you will get all muscle and gross, but trust me you wont. you will feel a lot better and people will think you sexy. How do you think models like miranda kerr and so on have such good bodies? because they look after it. all models go to the gym, and they HAVE A NUTRITIOUS DIET. stuff like The thigh gap is usually cause by defined quads which gives the "gap" This is done from the exercise called squats.

Big boobs is formed from bench press and so on. any way you can still be skinny and have a glamorous body. Watch these videos, these girls all work out in the gym and have great bodies that most girls die for, and they have the most healthiest diet.

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This will make your body healthier and help your eggs, because if your eggs are not working then that is dangerous..anyway people are not going to tell you off for having a body without a thigh gap etc. try not to care what others think about you because everyone is unique in there own way and it gets you far in life. Kind regards.