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Now, of course she is tight. That is the beauty of her being a virgin. When you finally do the do her vagina will fit you like a glove.
*For her first time having sex her attempting to ride you is the worst position she could have chosen. May I suggest that you are on top and once you suit up and are sure that your penis is at the opening of her vagina that you ask her if she is ready. IF she says yes push very hard and very fast 1or2 good times so that you are in. Once you are in you can
go back to being gentle.
Think of it like peeling off a band-aid. If you peel it off slowly it hurts worse than if you just snatch it off very quickly then it's over. Good luck. If you decide to follow my advice let me know how it goes if you want.
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hello,
fear of sex i can say its normal from my experience am 25 years and just got married to my boyfriend of 4 yrs. we have been married now for 5 months. the first 3 months were hell for the both of us. we tried sex for the first time on our wedding night both of us being virgins. it was extremely pain full and he just got to the point of breaking the hymen when i got out of bed. since then i was so scared even of the thought of sex. he tried getting me in the mood for several days, but i wouldn't give in. i used to feel so scared, tightened my legs where he couldn't even touch my vagina i cried several days and felt horrible about myself and used to think that i wasn't a real women as i couldn't bring myself to bare the pain and get over it. we then decided to visit a gynecologic who examined me and told me that all the scary feelings were just thoughts building up in my brain, that it was all in my head and that it doesn't hurt as much as i was thinking, more of psychological. she then gave usuggest you just do it the old missionary style with the girl down until you get comfortable with other styles. tell your girlfriend to have patients and even when it hurts after applying the gel to just lay put and loose, do not tighten her legs as by doing that the pain will worsen and will only hurt herself. AM NOW HAPPILY 1 MONTH PREGNANT AND THANKING GOD EVERYDAY FOR THAT.the pain will eventually go away in just few days time so just tell her to relax and you be patient for her and help her through this. hope this Helps!s medicine some sort of jelly like liquid called xylocaine gel 2% where i applied around my vagina it sort of makes the vagina feel "numb" and makes you not feel the pain. we applied and started with a finger and the finger slipped in without me feeling any pain. i was so relieved and thanked God, and so we kept on trying with a finger then two fingers and finally with him. it hurt a bit but not as initially and in no time i got used to it and we never continued using the gel as i became more and more comfortable. i would
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Is it possible that during the first phase of the relationship her behaviour was influenced by some kind of "fascination" and as you started to live together, her sexual desired dropped down - and it got stabilized on her "natural" level (which is quite low)?
Anyway, I understand your frustration and pain, because I was in the same situation with some of my ex-girlfriends, too. The bad news is that in my case it just got worse over the time, once they started to behave in this "anti-sexual" way and their aversion just got bigger and bigger - which naturally led to all kinds of problems/complications/misunderstandings/frustrations etc - so all of those sexually imbalanced relationships in my past ended as a result of this. From my experience, when these problems (me wanting sex much more than they wanted) started, I was not able to do anything to make them more interested in having sex with me. But my case could be different from yours, because in my case, the imbalance of desire could be seen from the beginning of the relationships, it was always there, so it was not a result of some sudden changes.Only when I met a girl whose sexual desire and preferences (as for frequency) were the same as mine, only then I stopped having those unpleasant problems described above...
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me and my gf also had first sex in my home and it was fun, v both were nude and watchin movie later on i started suckin her nippls nd she turnd on nd i opened her legs nd strtd touching my penis to her vagina lips,, when i strtd insertin for the first time she got tighten nd closed her eyes then by giving more push i inserted half my penis and strtd moving it in out upto that length ,, after some time i was about to take out so i gave my penis to her she sucked very hard in 69 and i put my two finger in her vagina nd 1 in ass so got thunder and took out sperms on her boobs and after that v had bath together .
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Sounds pretty frustrating. Remember though, sex is supposed to be fun so try and relax and not put so much pressure on yourselves. Oil based lubricants could help, theyre much more slippery than water based ones so could help with penetration . There is an Ebook out that has some good information about certain positions to use depending on your/ her size.
Hope this helps.
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