Well hello there, im sure at my age all of your older more experienced gentlemen had a conversation with your girlfriend or maybe just a friend, about sex. Tonight i had such a conversation, in depth with my girlfriend. it started innocently, before gradually talking about how far we would go, (we werent together at the time) and who we'd do it with ect.
Now im 15, and reaching the end of puberty the only place my hairs are still growing being my armpits, but there on there way, and as im sure others feel, sex is on my mind a lot, and i feel pressured. i have talked to my friend about it, and god tell ye, it help a LOT, to find out its not just me that feels this way, or has had such conversations.
Anyway in mine and my girlfriends conversation, i told her i was ready for intercourse, but not oral sex due to not knowing what to do. but if i did i would do either. i hope you understand me, nerves arent something ive learnt to control masterfully.
She had the other view, she wasnt ready for intercourse but was ready for Oral, and obvously, i was like, Hell Yeah. but the MAIN reason im not ready to recieve oral, is a problem my penis has at this stage in life, pimples, i have been to the surgery and had them checked, by the doctor was shite and i dont beleive his conclusion, i am going back wih another doctor.
i dont tihnk our first time would be very enjoyable, at least, i could give oral to her and we could have sex, with a condom and id feel fine as she wouldnt see the embarassing life ruining bastards. im sure you feel my predicatment is either
A) Common
B) Unfortunate
after our chat, i felt i was ready to grow up, i didnt want to be the person i was, upset at being at the last days of childhood, and the 2 things stopping me are
1) Im ready, but increasingly scared about giving her oral
2) she would see these pimples.
in replies im searching for :
Oral advice, and comfort on doing it.
Other people with symptons of small whiteish spots on the foreskin and penis tip,
Now im 15, and reaching the end of puberty the only place my hairs are still growing being my armpits, but there on there way, and as im sure others feel, sex is on my mind a lot, and i feel pressured. i have talked to my friend about it, and god tell ye, it help a LOT, to find out its not just me that feels this way, or has had such conversations.
Anyway in mine and my girlfriends conversation, i told her i was ready for intercourse, but not oral sex due to not knowing what to do. but if i did i would do either. i hope you understand me, nerves arent something ive learnt to control masterfully.
She had the other view, she wasnt ready for intercourse but was ready for Oral, and obvously, i was like, Hell Yeah. but the MAIN reason im not ready to recieve oral, is a problem my penis has at this stage in life, pimples, i have been to the surgery and had them checked, by the doctor was shite and i dont beleive his conclusion, i am going back wih another doctor.
i dont tihnk our first time would be very enjoyable, at least, i could give oral to her and we could have sex, with a condom and id feel fine as she wouldnt see the embarassing life ruining bastards. im sure you feel my predicatment is either
A) Common
B) Unfortunate
after our chat, i felt i was ready to grow up, i didnt want to be the person i was, upset at being at the last days of childhood, and the 2 things stopping me are
1) Im ready, but increasingly scared about giving her oral
2) she would see these pimples.
in replies im searching for :
Oral advice, and comfort on doing it.
Other people with symptons of small whiteish spots on the foreskin and penis tip,
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i have had pimples there too not on the penis but around it, useally after shaving completely the hairs would grow back and become infected.
i hated that so i would even let a girl know about the area i just avoided the situations
if its not a std, but a bad after affect of puberty, we all hate that..
then perhaps cleaning there alot, not scrubing harshly, but keeping it well cleaned and groomed
if anything growing out the hair to hide them might help
if it on the penis have u tried using pimple medications on the area for a few day and looked to see how things go?
i hated that so i would even let a girl know about the area i just avoided the situations
if its not a std, but a bad after affect of puberty, we all hate that..
then perhaps cleaning there alot, not scrubing harshly, but keeping it well cleaned and groomed
if anything growing out the hair to hide them might help
if it on the penis have u tried using pimple medications on the area for a few day and looked to see how things go?
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yeah if she loves you and you explain it it will be fine! plus if you use a condom during oral sex she wont see them :-D
don't forget you can catch infections through oral sex - if she has a coldsore you could end up with genital warts - much more nasty than pimples! if youre that worried use a condom - try flavoured ones though as i'm pretty sure the normal ones taste rank!
as for technique on a girl - lick the clitoris and around it - some girls like to be stimulated directly others don't! you can also use your hands to helps out! apparently spelling out the alphabet on a girls clit is supposed to be really stimulating!
you can also put your tongue into her vagina - makes a girl feel great!
hope that helps and have fun :-)
don't forget you can catch infections through oral sex - if she has a coldsore you could end up with genital warts - much more nasty than pimples! if youre that worried use a condom - try flavoured ones though as i'm pretty sure the normal ones taste rank!
as for technique on a girl - lick the clitoris and around it - some girls like to be stimulated directly others don't! you can also use your hands to helps out! apparently spelling out the alphabet on a girls clit is supposed to be really stimulating!
you can also put your tongue into her vagina - makes a girl feel great!
hope that helps and have fun :-)
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