Hi. I had never had sex and I lost it to the guy I am with now. But he is still questioning whether I was a virgin or not. This is cuz he was able to get his penis in easy after a little fingering. I did not bleed and cuz it went in easily he says I wasnt a virgin. Can anyone help I don't knw myself y it had gne in so easily.
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Hi Cakes,
There is no way to prove your virginity.
The hymen may be torn from ordinary activities. He may have gone in easily because maybe you were wet enough? Maybe he's also very small.
What I'm trying to say is YOU DON"T NEED TO EXPLAIN THIS to this guy. He either accepts you at your word or not. If he doesn't then there is no trust in your relationship.
Stand up for yourself. Tell him that once and for all, that you were a virgin, and that he just have to believe you.
Good luck.
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Hey Cakes,
As Medic-dan said there really isn't a way to prove virginity. There are many things that influence how easy it is to penetrate. Naturally, wetness and penis size (or the blood flow in to the penis) matter and the fact that he did finger you, which also can help the expansion of the vaginal opening. This can also be because you were relaxing your kegel muscles vs. tensing them.
I know the experiencing the mistrust he is giving you is difficult (especially in such a sensitive topic) but don't feel confused with yourself or the relationship. If there is good stuff in your relationship try to talk it through. It is very likely that he does not know himself and feels insecure and is afraid of being lied to.
As Medic-dan said there really isn't a way to prove virginity. There are many things that influence how easy it is to penetrate. Naturally, wetness and penis size (or the blood flow in to the penis) matter and the fact that he did finger you, which also can help the expansion of the vaginal opening. This can also be because you were relaxing your kegel muscles vs. tensing them.
I know the experiencing the mistrust he is giving you is difficult (especially in such a sensitive topic) but don't feel confused with yourself or the relationship. If there is good stuff in your relationship try to talk it through. It is very likely that he does not know himself and feels insecure and is afraid of being lied to.
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