Right so I'm freaked out and have preferred the Anonymous self to ask for help on the internet.
the nitty gritty:
-I have a Soft/Weak Erection that lasts for no time at all. Really pathetic and it happens ALL the friggin time. Like I do NOT get Hard. No "Strong Like Bull". This has been happening for about...3 months?
I am
-26.
-In shape. Active. Non-smoker. Sexually active.
-I'm not traumatized.
-Haven't taken drugs for a year (used to smoke like hell and do some bump)
-I DID masturbate everyday for 10 months in the time I didn't have a girlfriend or friend that I could sleep with. Of course some days I jacked off a few times in a row if it was sunday and I was really bored.
-Only time I'm hard is right before I ejaculate.
-I'm with an AMAZING girl now and Oral Sex is starting to get tiring and we'd both like to make it like dogs in heat.
-No stress but this goddamn problem.
-I've had a LOT of encounters with women. Especially if you count oral sex. I have no idea what the number is. I'm not Wilt Chamberlain by any means but just consider me for the most part very sexually active.
I mean I dont want to play ego here but I've NEVER had any problems like this before. Yeah sure I had a few nights in the past where NOTHING happened but thats normal and I was nervous as hell or stoned out of my mind. But those were never 1 after another and a long time ago.
This is starting to feel chronic. Meh. I'm looking up at the banner at the top of the window where it says "How do you feel today?" well SteadyHealth.com I feel like friggin c**p. Fix though and I'm a-OK.
I mean like should I get some viagra? This Girl is WAY too hot/smart/cool to lose. And I'd be nice to know my equipments good too.
MEGA thanks in advance,
the nitty gritty:
-I have a Soft/Weak Erection that lasts for no time at all. Really pathetic and it happens ALL the friggin time. Like I do NOT get Hard. No "Strong Like Bull". This has been happening for about...3 months?
I am
-26.
-In shape. Active. Non-smoker. Sexually active.
-I'm not traumatized.
-Haven't taken drugs for a year (used to smoke like hell and do some bump)
-I DID masturbate everyday for 10 months in the time I didn't have a girlfriend or friend that I could sleep with. Of course some days I jacked off a few times in a row if it was sunday and I was really bored.
-Only time I'm hard is right before I ejaculate.
-I'm with an AMAZING girl now and Oral Sex is starting to get tiring and we'd both like to make it like dogs in heat.
-No stress but this goddamn problem.
-I've had a LOT of encounters with women. Especially if you count oral sex. I have no idea what the number is. I'm not Wilt Chamberlain by any means but just consider me for the most part very sexually active.
I mean I dont want to play ego here but I've NEVER had any problems like this before. Yeah sure I had a few nights in the past where NOTHING happened but thats normal and I was nervous as hell or stoned out of my mind. But those were never 1 after another and a long time ago.
This is starting to feel chronic. Meh. I'm looking up at the banner at the top of the window where it says "How do you feel today?" well SteadyHealth.com I feel like friggin c**p. Fix though and I'm a-OK.
I mean like should I get some viagra? This Girl is WAY too hot/smart/cool to lose. And I'd be nice to know my equipments good too.
MEGA thanks in advance,
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I hear ya. I was there once, though mine was related to heavy drug use and insecurities. Here's what I recommend:
[1] Start taking Zinc vitamin supplements. Not the Zinc throat lozenges or cold prevention stuff -- just the plain white pills. You can get them in any grocery store. I read about using zinc in some sex book I read a number of years ago, tried it, and BOY am I now a believer. Strong like bull.
[2] Psychological stuff - sounds like you are way into this girl. Relax a little, maybe have a beer or something and just chill out. Maybe lay around in bed in low light and get to know each other's bodies. Show her how you touch yourself and have her show you. All of this stuff sounds pretty dumb, but it helps. I have slept with women that were uncomfortable around me (and made me uncomfortable around them) and it was not the same as great sex with someone that is comfortable with their body and mine.
Those are my two suggestions. Good luck!
[1] Start taking Zinc vitamin supplements. Not the Zinc throat lozenges or cold prevention stuff -- just the plain white pills. You can get them in any grocery store. I read about using zinc in some sex book I read a number of years ago, tried it, and BOY am I now a believer. Strong like bull.
[2] Psychological stuff - sounds like you are way into this girl. Relax a little, maybe have a beer or something and just chill out. Maybe lay around in bed in low light and get to know each other's bodies. Show her how you touch yourself and have her show you. All of this stuff sounds pretty dumb, but it helps. I have slept with women that were uncomfortable around me (and made me uncomfortable around them) and it was not the same as great sex with someone that is comfortable with their body and mine.
Those are my two suggestions. Good luck!
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