Last night, i had sex for the first time. I thought it would be a good idea to drink a litttle to relax my nerves. i wasnt wasted or anything, but quite tipsy! when it came down to it... i was putting it off by using lots of foreplay, because i couldnt get a hard enough erection.. she then started to do stuff to me, which was good, but then when she stopped and it came time to put on the condom, i lost most of it.. but continued to put it on. i then strugled to get it in, because it wasnt very hard, but did... and we were having sex. neither of us came and i lost hardness during having sex, surely this isnt right for someone who is 16 and having sex for the first time? ... HELP!?
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Granted alcohol can calm the nerves, but it also calms everything else. Sex while drinking seems like it takes forever. Everything is great until you get going, but it's downhill from there.
Alcohol also gives you nerves of steel which certainly helped in deciding to take "the plunge". Next time, don't bother with the booze and i bet things will work in your favor.
Alcohol also gives you nerves of steel which certainly helped in deciding to take "the plunge". Next time, don't bother with the booze and i bet things will work in your favor.
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Thanks very much! but.. how can i make sure that this doesnt happen again next time.. im really worried and couldnt face the embarasment.. also wouldnt have drink as an excuse this time if it happens again!? (thanks for all replies..greatly appreciated)
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You will never know if the alcohol played a part unless you try it without.
First time sex is always stressful, as we really don't know what we are doing or what to expect. One can watch porn or read the rag mags just to get an idea, but when it comes right down to actually doing it, we do fumble. As time goes on you will get more comfortable with your partner as well as yourself. It's like riding a bike, once you figure it out, you won't forget. You will fall and trip up on occasion, but you'll get it right. Next time, don't think about failure, or you will have a problem.
First time sex is always stressful, as we really don't know what we are doing or what to expect. One can watch porn or read the rag mags just to get an idea, but when it comes right down to actually doing it, we do fumble. As time goes on you will get more comfortable with your partner as well as yourself. It's like riding a bike, once you figure it out, you won't forget. You will fall and trip up on occasion, but you'll get it right. Next time, don't think about failure, or you will have a problem.
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I will try my best to go in with a more confident mindset. again, thanks. Hopefully this is my last question on the matter.. what about "male angel" tablets? i bought them today because i want to get it right next time.. should i use them, or just go without anything? thanks again.
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