Hi, I am 29 years old, good health no high blood pressure nor diabetes, but suddenly for the past two mornings I have softer morning erections. This almost never happeneds in my life, its always rock solid in the morning. Also for the past two days I haven't have a erection, even when I see a hot girl on the street or something.

The story is this: three days ago I was about to have sex with a girl we had oral sex but when it came time to actually have sexual intercourse I couldn't get an erection. We tried many things to get it hard again as she tried to rub/ perform oral on it pretty hard and it still won't get hard.

Later on that day I actually found out there might be a chance she is hiv positive, I know technically we didn't have sex but wr did have oral sex so that worried me a lot.

So to get bk to my erection problem, here are some of the reaons I think might be the cause:

1: psychologically I am worried about being expose to hiv. I have to wait 3 months to get tested.
2: the extensive rubbing and rough oral sex from my sex partner. When trying to get me hard, there was some rough rubbing to my penis, maybe it damaged some nerves on it?

Please help! Do I have erectile dyfunctionality???