im seeking help because i am worried about my penis health, I have seen numerous problems with it and i am only 21 years old
for the past 2 or 3 years or so, i have experienced ED (cant get a hard one), weak erection, shrinking in size, and premature ejaculation.
i am a virgin and i have been masturbating daily since i was 15. daily usually means in the morning when i wake up or before i go to sleep. sometimes 2 or 3 or 4 times a day. i tried to cut up for as long as i can remember and i am still trying to, usually i go 2 or 3 days without masturbation. but usually when im in bed in the morning or before i sleep the temptation is too strong. when i masturbate i usually go for the ejaculation. that means usually after 3 or 4 mins of intense rubbing i release, then get up or go to sleep. i try to stimulate my penis for a harder on because it seems to be experiencing problems but it only seem to get worse
I have average health, i am not very muscular but i am in good health condition. usually dont get sick and a cold or a fever usually goes away in a day. for the past 2 years or so i have been trying to get into a better physical condition, both running and some weight lifting. i have tuned it up a bit recently cuz i have found my comfort way of working out
but just i am trying to eat more healthier and exercise healthier, my penis is getting more problem!
at first i experience ED, my mind is sexually stimulated and my penis can feel something but i cant get a hard on, as much as i hate to say it but sometimes even so i still masturbate till i ejaculate. im not a complete loser and i tries to cut it down and watch my health but the problem sort of went away, although it still comeback sometimes. then i noticed i started having weaker erection and a shrinking in penis. when i remember i was younger it used to be 6" or bigger, then 2 or 3 years ago when i could reach my hardest hard on its still only 5"5 or under. about a year ago i remember my head usually get really big and full but now it doesnt seem to get up much and stays in its usual triangle ship, instead of filling up to a square. now, by now i mean after i have tuned up my physical work out, my penis seem to reduced to only 5" if not less during erection. althought i seem to no longer have ED, just some really bad erection. if that is not bad enough, i also seem to have premature ejaculation. like i mentioned earlier, when i masturbate i go for the ejaculation, i dont often try to hold it or exercise any muscles and my body/mind is sexually stimulated frequently. i only last 3 or 4 mins of intensive rubbing, and very often something leaks during it. or if i stop stimulating it instantly shrink in size/lose the erection and then something leaks out. the worse part is i have what is commonly known as "jizz in my pants". what happen is when i kiss a girl, or careless or feel really close to her and feel her scent, i feel something in my penis but i often dont get a hard on, i just feel like itchy feeling on the side of the lower part of my shaft (near the body away from the head). and then i leak out some semen, or liquid. all this has gotten me really worried, upset, etc!
i have looked up the common problems, im not in bad shape, im not old, i dont have blood pressure problem or anything but i do have frequent nosebleed, (especially after i have let myself go on the masturbation for a few days i usually always get nose bleed). my problem seem to came from 2 major source, psychological problems and over masturbation. i tries really hard to cut down the masturbation and tries to have positive thoughts, etc but it doesnt seem to work well and i just seem to have more and more problems everyday! can anyone help me?? with
1. the currently went away ED
2. shrinking in size i have suffered over the years, if anything i would like to go back to where i was
3. softer erection, like in size and in the head
4. premature ejaculation. (not a hard on but some leak when i am close to a girl)
5. controlling my masturbation and psychological problem.
for the past 2 or 3 years or so, i have experienced ED (cant get a hard one), weak erection, shrinking in size, and premature ejaculation.
i am a virgin and i have been masturbating daily since i was 15. daily usually means in the morning when i wake up or before i go to sleep. sometimes 2 or 3 or 4 times a day. i tried to cut up for as long as i can remember and i am still trying to, usually i go 2 or 3 days without masturbation. but usually when im in bed in the morning or before i sleep the temptation is too strong. when i masturbate i usually go for the ejaculation. that means usually after 3 or 4 mins of intense rubbing i release, then get up or go to sleep. i try to stimulate my penis for a harder on because it seems to be experiencing problems but it only seem to get worse
I have average health, i am not very muscular but i am in good health condition. usually dont get sick and a cold or a fever usually goes away in a day. for the past 2 years or so i have been trying to get into a better physical condition, both running and some weight lifting. i have tuned it up a bit recently cuz i have found my comfort way of working out
but just i am trying to eat more healthier and exercise healthier, my penis is getting more problem!
at first i experience ED, my mind is sexually stimulated and my penis can feel something but i cant get a hard on, as much as i hate to say it but sometimes even so i still masturbate till i ejaculate. im not a complete loser and i tries to cut it down and watch my health but the problem sort of went away, although it still comeback sometimes. then i noticed i started having weaker erection and a shrinking in penis. when i remember i was younger it used to be 6" or bigger, then 2 or 3 years ago when i could reach my hardest hard on its still only 5"5 or under. about a year ago i remember my head usually get really big and full but now it doesnt seem to get up much and stays in its usual triangle ship, instead of filling up to a square. now, by now i mean after i have tuned up my physical work out, my penis seem to reduced to only 5" if not less during erection. althought i seem to no longer have ED, just some really bad erection. if that is not bad enough, i also seem to have premature ejaculation. like i mentioned earlier, when i masturbate i go for the ejaculation, i dont often try to hold it or exercise any muscles and my body/mind is sexually stimulated frequently. i only last 3 or 4 mins of intensive rubbing, and very often something leaks during it. or if i stop stimulating it instantly shrink in size/lose the erection and then something leaks out. the worse part is i have what is commonly known as "jizz in my pants". what happen is when i kiss a girl, or careless or feel really close to her and feel her scent, i feel something in my penis but i often dont get a hard on, i just feel like itchy feeling on the side of the lower part of my shaft (near the body away from the head). and then i leak out some semen, or liquid. all this has gotten me really worried, upset, etc!
i have looked up the common problems, im not in bad shape, im not old, i dont have blood pressure problem or anything but i do have frequent nosebleed, (especially after i have let myself go on the masturbation for a few days i usually always get nose bleed). my problem seem to came from 2 major source, psychological problems and over masturbation. i tries really hard to cut down the masturbation and tries to have positive thoughts, etc but it doesnt seem to work well and i just seem to have more and more problems everyday! can anyone help me?? with
1. the currently went away ED
2. shrinking in size i have suffered over the years, if anything i would like to go back to where i was
3. softer erection, like in size and in the head
4. premature ejaculation. (not a hard on but some leak when i am close to a girl)
5. controlling my masturbation and psychological problem.
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It sounds like you have a lot of worries!
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Your penis isn't shrinking. It's very easy to measure differently depending on angles, where you start, and a lot of times depends on the pelvic area right above your penis getting slightly bigger due to lower abs or gaining some weight. 5.5" is way bigger than even average, so chill out.
You can use a ring or hold the base to hold more blood in the shaft. It's all about blood flow. Do kegel exercises and stuff. Maybe even start doing yoga or seeing a chiropractor to make sure you're getting good blood circulation to the rest of your body.
The leaking you are talking about is just pre-cum..basically it's the liquid right before you actually ejaculate that creates a good slippery area for your "boys" to swim in order to make a baby. It gives them energy, and also creates more lubrication which is nice for the woman and you.
It's normal to have some leak being turned on by a girl. girls get turned on when they are next to boys as well and release "leaking". It's also not uncommon to even ejaculate due to "dry humping" or just rubbing with clothes without having sex. I know this first hand! You are a virgin and there are a lot of new turn-ons for you, and it's exciting, which can make you ejaculate prematurely, or quickly. Even 30 year old men, actually, a LOT of men have this, especially on their first "encounter" with the woman. Some people say that's why the second time is always better! Even the second time might only last slightly longer though!
If you are really concerned about premature ejaculation, you can ask your doctor to be on zoloft or something like that. It has been known to help wtih premature ejaculation if taken in low doses. I enjoy him on the medicine sometimes because we can last a long time and I can be romanced, ect, but right now for example, I'd rather have sex at least twice a day and him not last long at all because we are trying to get pregnant! He has a higher sex drive when he's not on zoloft, which I really enjoy him wanting me many times a day. Men have an easier time having children if they are premature ejaculators too! :-)
So, bottom line for a future relationship, there's solutions if the girl cares, but she probably won't. Just make sure you are providing foreplay for her to enjoy herself, and she will not mind pleasuring you whether it takes 30 seconds or hours.
If your masturbation is a "problem", you may have an underlying sexual addition. When it's a problem is when it interferes with your work, school, social life, ect. Like, if you are late to work constantly because you are masturbating and you get fired. That's a problem. If you are participating in potentially harmful or unsafe activities like unprotected or anonymous sex, ect, with no regard for your health or safety, that's a problem too.
It's really my opinion that masturbation at 21 multiple times a day is probably more common than you think.
I'm really unsure about ED in your case without more details. Men have erections at night due to the bladder filling up and having to pee. When you pee, the erection will go away. That's what morning wood is. Many men prefer sex in the morning, before peeing. ED is when you don't get an erection at any time, even in the morning after sleep.
In your case, I would recommend seeing a psychiatrist that can work with you on the Zoloft if you are interested, and also can work wtih you with ED and what's going on. A lot of times stress and many other factors can play a huge role in your sex drive and erections, so it's important to pay close attention to what's going on in your life and that you are psychologically stable. Also, overthinking things might make you stressed and backfire and cause ED! Just chill out:)
Overall, it sounds like you have a lot of worries about things you don't need to worry about! You should quite normal!
:-P
Your penis isn't shrinking. It's very easy to measure differently depending on angles, where you start, and a lot of times depends on the pelvic area right above your penis getting slightly bigger due to lower abs or gaining some weight. 5.5" is way bigger than even average, so chill out.
You can use a ring or hold the base to hold more blood in the shaft. It's all about blood flow. Do kegel exercises and stuff. Maybe even start doing yoga or seeing a chiropractor to make sure you're getting good blood circulation to the rest of your body.
The leaking you are talking about is just pre-cum..basically it's the liquid right before you actually ejaculate that creates a good slippery area for your "boys" to swim in order to make a baby. It gives them energy, and also creates more lubrication which is nice for the woman and you.
It's normal to have some leak being turned on by a girl. girls get turned on when they are next to boys as well and release "leaking". It's also not uncommon to even ejaculate due to "dry humping" or just rubbing with clothes without having sex. I know this first hand! You are a virgin and there are a lot of new turn-ons for you, and it's exciting, which can make you ejaculate prematurely, or quickly. Even 30 year old men, actually, a LOT of men have this, especially on their first "encounter" with the woman. Some people say that's why the second time is always better! Even the second time might only last slightly longer though!
If you are really concerned about premature ejaculation, you can ask your doctor to be on zoloft or something like that. It has been known to help wtih premature ejaculation if taken in low doses. I enjoy him on the medicine sometimes because we can last a long time and I can be romanced, ect, but right now for example, I'd rather have sex at least twice a day and him not last long at all because we are trying to get pregnant! He has a higher sex drive when he's not on zoloft, which I really enjoy him wanting me many times a day. Men have an easier time having children if they are premature ejaculators too! :-)
So, bottom line for a future relationship, there's solutions if the girl cares, but she probably won't. Just make sure you are providing foreplay for her to enjoy herself, and she will not mind pleasuring you whether it takes 30 seconds or hours.
If your masturbation is a "problem", you may have an underlying sexual addition. When it's a problem is when it interferes with your work, school, social life, ect. Like, if you are late to work constantly because you are masturbating and you get fired. That's a problem. If you are participating in potentially harmful or unsafe activities like unprotected or anonymous sex, ect, with no regard for your health or safety, that's a problem too.
It's really my opinion that masturbation at 21 multiple times a day is probably more common than you think.
I'm really unsure about ED in your case without more details. Men have erections at night due to the bladder filling up and having to pee. When you pee, the erection will go away. That's what morning wood is. Many men prefer sex in the morning, before peeing. ED is when you don't get an erection at any time, even in the morning after sleep.
In your case, I would recommend seeing a psychiatrist that can work with you on the Zoloft if you are interested, and also can work wtih you with ED and what's going on. A lot of times stress and many other factors can play a huge role in your sex drive and erections, so it's important to pay close attention to what's going on in your life and that you are psychologically stable. Also, overthinking things might make you stressed and backfire and cause ED! Just chill out:)
Overall, it sounds like you have a lot of worries about things you don't need to worry about! You should quite normal!
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yeh anything like Zoloft or any SSRI will slow a guy down, to say the least
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*and I WOULD say stress is a major killer for a guy for sex
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*and I WOULD say stress is a major killer for a guy for sex
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Dude I'm going through the same except every so often I shrink more smh it won't stop and even worse my nuts are too can I get some help please?+
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