Stimulating wet dreams in adults

so i have been masturbating since i was about 11 and im 14 now and my penis is 5.7 is that small? an also im straight but sometimes me and my friend masturbate together and sometimes we jerk eachother off is that making me gay or idk

 Experience  a  wet dream   I have to say  the only  way  that  I found that  works  is   have  sex  with a girl   then  stop half  way  let  the  girl get off  first  after  she  is  done  you  can  not  finish   you  must  stop  then  if  it  is  late at  night  go  to  bed  and  you  will   indeed have a  wet dream  and  when you wake up   you  will have a  mess  in your  pants or what ever you wear  at  night 

Last night I had a huge wet dream. I barely remember any "dream images" of having sex in the dream, but I remember waking up near the end and realizing it was hugely cumming out onto my bed sheet. And I was enjoying it and didn't care whether I was wetting my bed or having a "wet dream." Then I finally awoke more fully and checked it out with my hand, sure enough it was sticky and I had NOT wet my bed. I'm 60 years old and besides occasional sex with my wife, I also enjoy jerking off to porn. So the images of sex might frequently come to mind in my dreams. I think if the guys here want to have wet dreams, they should watch some porn and start getting your penis hard, then stop and turn off the porn (if you can) thus saving your cum for your possible dream. I don't waste the chance to cum like that, but I'm thinking if you want a wet dream, that might be how to get one. Good luck.