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I'm a 13 year old boy and recently I have been waking up from really nice dreams to me peeing my bed and then if my penis gets touched in any way I get this really nice feeling in my penis and this weird stuff comes out of it that's not pee what is happening to me how can I make it stop I'm too embarrassed to tell my parents about anything other than the pee.

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Hi Tim
Did you have any problems with bedwetting before the dreams started happening?
The other stuff that comes out when you touch your penis and is with the nice feeling is called a wet dream meaning you ejaculate when sleeping. It is part of puberty and perfectly normal to have wet dreams the bed wetting part are you sure it is pee and is there much of it when it happens. Before you ejaculate there is pre-cum but it is just a tiny amount and it is clear and sticky. For some masturbating helps to reduce the wet dreams.
How much pee are you releasing when you wet the bed is it just a bit or does it wet your sheets and PJ's?
There is nothing wrong with you wet dreams happen to most guys and if you have problems with bedwetting hopefully as you mature that will stop.
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It is as much as when I use the bathroom and I don't have bed wetting problems never have
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Sorry Tim I hope I didn't offend you.
You posted you wake up when your peeing Tim or has it already happened that you peed the bed and you wake up when the nice feeling you mentioned is about to happen.
How often is it happening and is it always you pee the bed and the other stuff comes out after you wake up?
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I wake up peeing nothing els coming out until the feeling happens it happens about once a week every time I have these nice dreams with a girl what are those about we are always doing stuff I don't understand
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The dreams are normal and part of puberty lots of changes going on hormones and all that stuff. The ejaculating or wet dreams are normal also Tim, you wakening up as your peeing and about to ejaculate is a different twist. Have you noticed any change in the number of times you pee during the day?
With not having any problems with bedwetting before it is worth trying the basic things anyone that wets the bed should do.
Cut back some on the amount you drink in evening but drink lots of water during the day and avoid drinks with lots of sugar like pop and juices.
Before bed make sure you pee try to get in two before bed maybe pee half an hour before bed then try to go again just as you are ready to go to bed.
If you have noticed it happens about the same time during the night set your alarm for two or 3 hours after you go to bed and get up to pee.
It is worth trying to see if it helps with the bedwetting the wet dreams will happen but you shouldn't be peeing the bed before ejaculating.
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It is still happening I tried what you said the pee was less is there any way to get this to stop the dreams feel nice even though I don't understand them it just isn't worth what is happening
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Hi Tim
Has it ever happened that just one of them happens like you have only wet the bed and not had the other thing happen or the other happened without wetting the bed?
If you would be more comfortable talking about it in private if you join the site and after you do 5 or 6 posts you can send a private message the posts can be just a couple of words but they have to all be a new post before it works.
Only answer these if your comfortable doing it.
Is there anything besides this that is causing you a lot of stress or worry?
Do you find you pee more than usual during the day and during the day are you able to hold your pee ok or do you have to get to the bathroom right away?
All these can be factors including constipation.
Have you started looking at porn online or anything like that?
Have you talked to your parents yet about both things that are happening?

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Hi Tim
Just wondering how the last few days have been for you are things getting any better?
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Not really getting any better also sorry for not replying to you I have been really busy my question is what is porn also my parents are not being helpful I told them about what has been happening and they said they think it's just me peeing the bed

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How often has happened that you have only peed the bed and not had the wet dream part happen Tim?
I only asked about looking at porn or (naked pictures) just to see if there was something that might be causing the dreams you mentioned.
Part of it is you are just peeing the bed but for it just to start after having no problems before that is a bit of a concern.
Has your mom put a mattress cover on your bed so your mattress doesn't get wet or stained.
Maybe with it being the weekend Tim you could try setting your alarm to wake you up every couple of hours during the night so you can get up to pee.

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I don't remember the last time I peed the bed without this happening my mom has put one on but still is being no help on what is happening I have tried waking up through the night but i just dont need to pee really even if I do pee if it happens the wet dreams you are saying some pee still comes out is there any way to just make this stop
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The wet dream part of it is something you can't really control they are part of puberty I have seen other posts about stopping wet dreams maybe search the site for information on wet dreams.
I know you said before it was the same amount as when you go to the bathroom when you wet the bed but it sounds like what your trying is reducing the amount you pee when you wet the bed. Just wondering when you are waking up during the night if it feels like you don't have to pee do you just go back to sleep or do you go to the bathroom and try to empty your bladder.
There is no quick fix for the bedwetting part but I think your on the right track and since you wake up when it happens and can wake up on your own going to the bathroom even if it feels like you don't have to pee is worth doing and sit down on the toilet until you pee even if it is just a bit empty your bladder.

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I do try to pee when I wake up it is reduced but when it happens some still comes out
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I also want to know what is happening in my dreams I don't understand them really.
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