Hi I'm 17 years old and am a virgin, but this past early saturday morning I was intoxicated and let a guy finger me for the first time. I believe he went to hard for my first time and too fast maybe...but I was so drunk to the point that the pain wasn't bad at all. The next day though was when I noticed my vagina whips were swollen, a tad itchy, sore, and I discovered a reddish brown discharge when i went to pee. Is this normal? I really can't see a doctor or anything because my parents would murder me lol but I just want to know how long this will take to heal and get better and if these symptom are completely normal!