I recently started having sex with my boyfriend. I wasn't a virgin but I only had sex three times. My boyfriend is 9 inches almost 10. During sex everything is fine and dandy, but a few hours later my vagina is itchy towards the opening, feels swollen/tender, and I sometimes get a sharp pain. We've only had sex four times, but it's been twice on two separate days. The first time we had sex I bled and had pain for a couple of days. When the pain went away, we had sex again. We use a condom every time, he pulls out before he cums, and there is plenty of foreplay before he starts. What's wrong with me? Do I have to get used to it? And if I do is there any remedies I could put on vagina to stop the itch?