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My girlfriend and I decided to have sex. We have done this already 7-8 times, but unfortunately unsuccessful. I am trying my best, but no result. I can't break her hymen. Is it possible that I can't break her hymen? If yes, why??? (Everything is OK with my penis, its size also) What then we have to do??? ? Please, any advice!!!

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Not all women bleed when they loose their virginity.

Just as everyone is different: Some women have bigger breasts than others, some women have bigger noses than others, and similarly, some women have paper thin hymens, some have more resiliant ones that don't rupture.

I never bled when I lost my virginity. Some women just dont. its natural.
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I agree. Maybe you took her virginity and you don't know that. Neither she does. I didn't have this issue, my main concern was can the hymen be broken by finger and I got the positive answer. My BF actually broke my hymen with his fingers.  But I have heard that there are some cases in which hymen cannot be broken at all. I know that some of the boys were using lubricants and this was helpful, while some of them couldn't do a thing about this. Maybe your girl needs to visit the gynecologist to see what is her problem. Maybe she is just stiff a little bit and that is why nothing is happening. 

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i am now 21 and when i first had sex it dident break my hymen still till this day nothing so, no nothing is wrong with your penis .every person is different thank god! good luck XD
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My boyfriend can't break my hymen either - but it tore, so I know that mine will have to break eventually for me to have sex at all. I'm 20 freaking years old and no one can tell me how to do this - we've been trying since OCTOBER! Please use some more constructive advice, not that "everyone's different" stuff because that's not the point here. My hymen IS supposed to break and bleed because it did a little already, but he can't even get in because it's covering it - it hurts so bad and I'm at my wits end - I have no idea what to do anymore.
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Some women who's hymen will not break, need to have their hymen cut by a Doctor.
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some people find their hymen is already broken threw everyday activities, such as horse riding, cycling, gymnastics (splits), etc
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so if your hymen is not breaking you can try another thing... get ur bf to finger you. but I gotta warn you, if you really say your hymen is not breaking from sex then when it does it is going to hurt like HELLLL... it may just be better to go to a doctor.... be careful, think logically about it
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Please don't feel bad.I got married at 30, and my hymen didn't break 9 months later. It's not as easy as it sounds, and trying to break it, hurts like hell. So just enjoy sex, and don't force the issue.
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Ladyz one advise...see a doctor dont be ashamed or anything we all different i also had to go for an Op i was worse coz my menstrual blood(if thats what is called) would not come out

So doctor is the way to go u dont want to be going through unbearable pain for something simple
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i have had sex with my girlfriend.we both had sex for the first time.she didnt bleed anytime.my penis size is 10 cm when erected.plz give me a solution to break her hymen...plz help me
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I broke my girlfriends the first time we had sex. Since we are just teenagers we didnt know why she was bleeding. We were freaking out. Until her mom found out and explained that it was normal and we were in alot of trouble... :O but now everything is ok and she has no pain at all during sex. :-D But to make sure everything was ok she went to the doctor and got checked out.
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my ex bf didn't go in all the way when we had sex...but it hurt...he still went in...did my hymen break??? this was 10 months ago...and i haven't had sex since then...now i'm dating someone else and i'm afraid to have sex cuz it will hurt cuz idk if my hymen broke.
help?? :/
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i'm 21 years old and i hear you! i've been trying to have sex for the longest time and i have broken my hymen but nothing fits inside me that's thicker than 2 of my fingers (even that hurts!!) i read that it's probably the rings around the viginal entrance that is really tight, but how can i fix it? is there a possibility of getting it broken by a doctor under anaesthetics? i really wanna get rid of this stupid virginity without going through this pain. i also tried sex toys in every possible way to get it over with. i've become best friends with the sex shop girl! lol. but nothing works and it's pissing me off!! i'm a very sexual person yet i cant freakin have sex!! it's torture!! lol
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I had been with my boyfriend for 6 months before we agreed to have sex, it was my first time. We tried for about a month once or twice a week, but the pain was unbearable and he could no penetrate me or break my hymen. He was supportive and lovely but I was so embarrassed and didnt know what to do. In the end I cut it with a pair of nail scissors without telling anyone. It bled for about two hours and I have never been as worried in my life. I know it was a stupid thing to do but I was just so tired of not getting anywhere and going through so much pain time after time!! We did manage to have sex (although it still hurt for the first dozen times) but now we have an amazing sex life and I don't have any pain. I know what you are going through and I would honestly go to the doctor, what I did was stupid and dangerous because i was scared and young, it is worth the embarrassment of seeing your doctor to get rid of this problem! Also there are different types of hymen, see if you can identify yours as it helps you to understand the problem!
Hope this helps xxxx :-)
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