Ok, I have this really embarrassing problem: I am unable to ejaculate during sex. And that is only because my female partner is unable to last more than an hour. I also find it difficult to reach complete ejaculation during maasturbation. Sometimes I get the signal to ejaculate but absolutely nothing comes out. I actually know the reason though. The Kegals are held clenched while I maasturbate or have sex. When I stop to relax those muscles right before I would ejaculate, then I am able to. The problem is, it is very difficult to stop what I am doing and relax it, it keeps wanting to tighten itself up.
On the bright side, since I can't ejaculate unless I specifically want to, I never need a condom with my girlfriend. (we are both clean of STDs) but someday I would actually like to have children and despite being able to last a long time, not getting off at all is very hard on the nerves. The issue is compounded because, in never getting release, I often need it several times a day and it is interfering with my life.
I guess I was just wondering what could be causing this problem, and what I can do to undo it? Or am I stuck having to make myself ejaculate when I want to?
P.S. - why is "The M Word" marked as bad in a forum about sexual health?
On the bright side, since I can't ejaculate unless I specifically want to, I never need a condom with my girlfriend. (we are both clean of STDs) but someday I would actually like to have children and despite being able to last a long time, not getting off at all is very hard on the nerves. The issue is compounded because, in never getting release, I often need it several times a day and it is interfering with my life.
I guess I was just wondering what could be causing this problem, and what I can do to undo it? Or am I stuck having to make myself ejaculate when I want to?
P.S. - why is "The M Word" marked as bad in a forum about sexual health?
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