My vagina hole is toooo big :( i also have really big labia and its disgusting i am so ashamed of it.. i really need help what can i do to make both smaller and tighter..i had a natural birth with my child 4 years ago and things have only got worse since then..i cant even have sex with my long term partner anymore as theres no sensation for both us..he still says its good but i know hes lying to make me feel better..but it doesnt..i aslo get a lot if discharge and during sex i am always wet(like soaking)!! even when im not aroused!! why is this? what can i do to stop this? its ruining my life.
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are they different ones? how do i do them? do u know how i can stop gettin so wet even when not aroused ? or is this bcoz of my labia being large or my vagina being loose? thanks x
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I cant really answer why you get so wet as i dont know but i will research it and let you know if i find an answer.
I read your other post about labiaplasty and unless the NHS creates in Scotland than down south i think you struggle to get refered as most primary care trusts and cutting the or and saying its not a necessary operation but good luck anyway.
I would say just be proud of your large labia hun and guys love to see a mound or camel to :-) but i guess if there that big that the are causing pain then i hope you find a solution :-)
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Kegel exercises will help tighten up the muscles in your vagina but will not help make your labia smaller. Are you heavy set? Sometimes when your larger fat will be stored in your labia majora but if it is your labia minora then usually surgery can only help. If its your labia majora there are some exercises you can do to help reduces the fat that has been stored there and tighten it up. There are several possible reasons your lube level has increased. If you've recently started or stopped using the birth control pill, or switched to a new one, hormonal fluctuations could be the cause. Your degree of wetness can also be dictated by the different stages of your menstrual cycle. Many women produce more fluid during ovulation. If you're getting so wet that your partner's penis slips out of you, or if you're not feeling enough friction during sex, have him wear a condom. If he already does use rubbers, suggest a textured one to increase sensation. Since hes a long term partner if he doesnt wear condoms and doesnt want to I suggest keeping a towel under you and then just wiping off some of the wetness to help make more sensation for you. You should make an appointment with your doctor just to make sure everything is physically okay.
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thanks heather.. no im not heavy im quite slim weigh 8 1/2 stone..and its both minora and majora.. what excercise can i do to help ? ill try anything :) and as far as i can remember i have always been really wet during intercourse we dont use condoms as well both of us dont llike them lol but to be honest its worse with them as theres no feeling at all..do you know if theres a medical reason this could be happening.. im too embarressed to go to gp..what do i say lol?
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I dont think it is actually a medical condition more just how your genes work out.
As heather said just keep a towel handy and keep drying off every now and again.
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Labial Hypertrophy is what my friend had and this is a site about it if you would like to read about it. Sorry I did not add it before but I wanted to ask my friend what it was called. http://www.youngwomenshealth.org/labial_hypertrophy.html
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personally, I love large labia the minor and major. It turns me on just by looking at it.
I have have some encounters with women in this situation and I notice that if you go into
a pool of water hopefully in your private back yard and try having sex the water will off set
the natural lubrication, making you feel more of the trusting.
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I have had women express their concern in this way "I have had large children and am kinda large down there" however, when we get to having sex this is not the issue...maybe I am a large white male but i don't think so...I am not a 12" or a 5" diameter dude, i am what i consider a normal 7" and a 2" diameter guy. But when we take our time, as I like to do, and work the issues out I find we both have a great and enjoyable time...size is no issue...hers or mine. Relax, don't make it an issue and you will find it all works out...physical is only a part of the sex experience, when it gets this good it is really called making love aanyway!!!
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First ting is you do not mention your age, age plays an important role in your wetness. When it comes to lips, don't stress it some guys like me like all shape vagina's. Please don't put yourself down when you describe your vagina. I know from personal experience that with a large hole and wanting to do more than one penetration it becomes difficult and I used to have a towel ready.
To close your vagina you can do kegals. It's an exercise to tighten those muscles.
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