OK, Im new to this but I really do have a question. I have searched the site for similar question, but not really finding what I need(but yes, really good infomation here).
Either way, I have ussually irreaguler periods, except for the past couple monthes they have been on the 3rd or 4th, (every month for the past 4 or 5 monthes). Well, me and my boyfriend have had unprotected sex on the 18th, 20th, 23rd, and 27th. I messed up and thought I wasnt ovulated, so I thought it was safe to be unprotected. This is the first time we used the "can only get pregnant two days a month" theory. Well, now im rethinking it and Im pretty sure i was then. Well, after the 18th i had alot of creamy white discharge(kinda looked like lotion). 3 or 4 days after that I started having cramps(also pain just under my belly button to the left), 2 or 3 days after my nipples felt tiggly and kinda hurt a couple times thought out the day. Would I feel this, this early? Could I even be pregnant? And if I am, how do I tell my boyfriend I messed up this bad?
P.S. Im 18 and his 19. We been dating off and on for a little over a year. And we aren't ready for this. Any help is great, and be as honest as you want. Be as blunt as you want too.
Either way, I have ussually irreaguler periods, except for the past couple monthes they have been on the 3rd or 4th, (every month for the past 4 or 5 monthes). Well, me and my boyfriend have had unprotected sex on the 18th, 20th, 23rd, and 27th. I messed up and thought I wasnt ovulated, so I thought it was safe to be unprotected. This is the first time we used the "can only get pregnant two days a month" theory. Well, now im rethinking it and Im pretty sure i was then. Well, after the 18th i had alot of creamy white discharge(kinda looked like lotion). 3 or 4 days after that I started having cramps(also pain just under my belly button to the left), 2 or 3 days after my nipples felt tiggly and kinda hurt a couple times thought out the day. Would I feel this, this early? Could I even be pregnant? And if I am, how do I tell my boyfriend I messed up this bad?
P.S. Im 18 and his 19. We been dating off and on for a little over a year. And we aren't ready for this. Any help is great, and be as honest as you want. Be as blunt as you want too.
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You can get pregnant anytime of the month. There is better times than others, but there isnt ever a time thats safe 100%.
You need to do a home test.
How do you think your boyfriend will react?
Honesty is always the best, an you can do what you feel best, for you,!! if you are pregnant.
How about going on the pill.
You need to do a home test.
How do you think your boyfriend will react?
Honesty is always the best, an you can do what you feel best, for you,!! if you are pregnant.
How about going on the pill.
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Im going to go get a home test soon, but I fear more of stress hurting the baby(if I am). Just started school(full time), and going to work full time. Also my sister is having alot of complicatoins with her pergnancy(shes at a very high because of disorders that we both have).
And he has always said that if anything were to happen he would be there for me, and even know with it just being me, he is really suoortive and caring. I just dont want to ruin his life by giving him a kid so early in life.
And I don't like the pill cause cancer runs in my family, and its a fact that the longer your on the pill, patch, shot, or whatever.. your chances of breast cancer go up.
And he has always said that if anything were to happen he would be there for me, and even know with it just being me, he is really suoortive and caring. I just dont want to ruin his life by giving him a kid so early in life.
And I don't like the pill cause cancer runs in my family, and its a fact that the longer your on the pill, patch, shot, or whatever.. your chances of breast cancer go up.
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