Very nervous before sex I cant erect!

I'm 15 years old and I've tried to have sex with my gf like 5 different times and every time I start thinking to myself "don't loose the hard on" and it happens every time I feel less of a man and I just want to make her happy because I really love her...I also feel like it makes her think less of me because she could have someone else to have sex with and I just can't do it and sometimes when we are just making out I jizz a little bit in my pants and I feel really embarrassed and ashamed of it...I always think I'm just gonna be a virgin forever because I can't get over nervousness and I'm scared to talk to her about it

im going to have sex for the first time tonight im nervouswhat i do to make it the best time for her and me

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I had the same thing, but then got drunk as a skunk and went fine

I'm gown I got kids been married n now divorced but I'm talking to someone new 4 about 3 months I really love 1st problem was I was ejaculated to fast like a couple of seconds never had this problem before but now I be so nervous to disappoint her I can't even get a erection never had that problem I be ready when we kissing and touching I be wanting it so bad but I start sweating real bad and I'm not hot and it want get hard or it goes soft what's up with this I'm not old and don't need no V pills I want to know why with her I cum so so fast cuzz I put it down with any1 else but her its like I don't know what I'm doing or a lil boy I never have not ever been able to plz my woman this is sad I gotta do something or ima loose my woman tht I love

You're overthinking everything. Just relax. Foreplay is crucial! If it helps, both of you undress and have her mount and gently rub against your...the bits n' pieces. She'll start to be aroused because your member is rubbing against her clitorus, and the both of you will get into a mutual mindset. Sometimes going fast isn't the best thing. Start out slow, and build up from there. Sex with your partner should be special. Make it a special moment. Especially if she's truly the one for your heart.

Remember it will get better, keep putting yourself in uncomfortable positions it’s the only way you’ll ever grow as a person. Accept it will take time but that your moving in the right direction, that’s confidence

Try masturbating before you have sex with your girlfriend ,then it should help ,how big on hard are you?Can you shoot your cum?