Hi.
I feel so foolish writing this, I am 31 year old male virgin, When I was a teenager I tried to have sex several times, every time I tried I would get an erection and then get so nervous that I could not do it, my heart would start racing and I would get very tense all over, I love girls, but I gave up in them for years, just recently I met someone that I like and she likes me, We have been kissing and getting turned on, but have not tried sex yet, I know that it will come to that soon and I am dreading it, I am so scared when she will see what a nervous wreck that I am that she will run and never come near me again, I am so frustrated with this, what is wrong with me? I would appreciate any advice.
Thanks.
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Nothing to be ashamed of. Before you get intimate try to explain to her your problem. Woman tend to like a guy that is open about things with her. You don't want to fail and make her think she did something wrong. Just try to power through and not to think of anything but her beauty. For some sex is harder than it is for others. Some get nervous and some it comes naturally. Many actually hold off on sex for years due to insecurities of their body, but once they do it once than it comes easier and easier each time after.
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