Okay so I've been dating my girlfriend for just over 6 months now and we've decided to start having sex. I am a virgin and I'm very nervous about this matter. I can't stop thinking about it and every time I get close to her and think about sex I go soft immediately. We've been doing other things since we first started dating - everything besides sex and she is really eager to but I don't know what my problem is! I had this problem a few months ago too and I am a bodybuilder so I figured I was over training so I reduced and changed my workout/diet, but the problem still persists when I think about it too much. Sure, I'm good for other things, but when it comes to sex I go soft the second I start thinking about it. I get nervous but not as nervous as I used to when we're close so maybe I just need to "warm up" to her more? I don't know. Any feedback, help, or information would be appreciated! Thanks!
ps. We attempted to have sex earlier today and I was all excited when I wasn't thinking about it too much but as soon as I started worrying about my erection I went soft within seconds. How do I overcome this?!
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