So My girlfriend and I have just recently started having sex. I am having this problem where I can get it up and keep it up as long as we are engaging in any activity, but cant cum during intercoarse. I am getting very worried that there is something wrong with me and it is affecting her as well, beacause she thinks she is not goodenough. I am only 18, but I feel like I am , for lack of a better word, "broken" she is satisfied, and it is good for her, she will cum 2-3 times before I am so worn out and have to stop. I can ejaculate during masterbation, when she or I do it. I have been reading a lot about self-gratification. I did masterbate quite frequently as a younger boy. Please help me figure out whats wrong with me and what I can do to fix this. Thanks
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I have the same problem! Also the same age too. I'm currently not dating her anymore, but when I was having sex with my girlfriend for the first time I couldn't cum. She was so surprised since I was a virgin, especially when it reached the hour mark. I stayed hard and was able to keep it inside, but then I started to get tired and so did she, the whole time she kept telling me to let her know before I finished. I was embarrassed and didn't understand why. It happened again with another girl, but I faked my "release" when I started to get tired and go limp. First time I have ever heard of a guy faking it... lol I guess. I thought I might have came once but I didn't feel any strong sensation like I usually do when I masturbate alone, but I saw a little semen in the condom, but it could of been precum considering I let out a lot. Anyway, I heard it is because of nerves. If you relax in front of the girl and don't worry about it you are going to cum. Idk...still need help myself. Just telling you what I heard from others.
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