Thoughtful mothers, when they begin to notice frequent erections in their boys, will begin a special nighttime ritual at least several times a week. At bedtime, the mom will give her son a very relaxing and thorough back rub which puts the boy in a very passive relaxed sleep, with many boys almost asleep at that point. The mom gently helps flip the boy into his back and proceeds to give a very soft and soothing massage to the boys neck and chest. This puts most boys into a quasi-sleep mode. At that point, the mom simply moves the massage lower on the boy’s body, including his boxer briefs. Many boys at this point aren’t mentally aware or register what’s going on. He won’t notice (or care) when her fingertips start to gently massage his boxer briefs. Won’t notice when his penis begins to lengthen and stiffen inside the briefs. But mom will. She will then begin to focus her massage on the material over the head of the boy’s penis, the most sensitive area of his young body. He will attain a full erection very rapidly. He won’t notice when her fingers then begin to massage the glans of his penis, below the head, nor that her other hand is gently massaging the fabric covering his testicles. At this point he is fully sexually aroused. The mom will soon feel the wetness through the fabric of his precum. At this point, the mom will stop and use her fingers to open the slit of the boxer briefs, allowing her son’s erection to naturally come out in the open air. Using her son’s own precum as a lubricant, she can gently massage his entire penis with her hand to bring him to a full and quick ejaculation in his sleep. Some mothers instead will simply lower their mouth onto the head of the penis and using a combination of sucking and licking the head, bring the boy to ejaculate directly into her mouth.
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Thoughtful mothers, when they begin to notice frequent erections in their boys, will begin a special nighttime ritual at least several times a week. At bedtime, the mom will give her son a very relaxing and thorough back rub which puts the boy in a very passive relaxed sleep, with many boys almost asleep at that point. The mom gently helps flip the boy into his back and proceeds to give a very soft and soothing massage to the boys neck and chest. This puts most boys into a quasi-sleep mode. At that point, the mom simply moves the massage lower on the boy’s body, including his boxer briefs. Many boys at this point aren’t mentally aware or register what’s going on. He won’t notice (or care) when her fingertips start to gently massage his boxer briefs. Won’t notice when his penis begins to lengthen and stiffen inside the briefs. But mom will. She will then begin to focus her massage on the material over the head of the boy’s penis, the most sensitive area of his young body. He will attain a full erection very rapidly. He won’t notice when her fingers then begin to massage the glans of his penis, below the head, nor that her other hand is gently massaging the fabric covering his testicles. At this point he is fully sexually aroused. The mom will soon feel the wetness through the fabric of his precum. At this point, the mom will stop and use her fingers to open the slit of the boxer briefs, allowing her son’s erection to naturally come out in the open air. Using her son’s own precum as a lubricant, she can gently massage his entire penis with her hand to bring him to a full and quick ejaculation in his sleep. Some mothers instead will simply lower their mouth onto the head of the penis and using a combination of sucking and licking the head, bring the boy to ejaculate directly into her mouth.
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There seems to be more than one puberty related question coming from your paragraph.
The first has to do with your classroom, "I can't go to the chalkboard right now!" experience. It's time you started dressing like a man. Up until recently, you had 2 inch erections. You could wear nice, comfortable, loose clothing and nobody would notice when you had an erection. But as those erections stuck farther and farther out from your body, they were no longer going to be your little secret if and when you had to stand up in front of class. To "dress like a man" means to wear underware that's going to keep your penis down in the soft position when it wants to act like a tent pole inside your pants. Sure, that's not as comfortable as the loose clothing, but you can't just live your life around your erections.
Second issue comes from your expectation that you'll have to be naked in front of all the other guys next school year, and are concerned about your size. You mentioned having 5" erections and thought that was small. It is a little small, but you shouldn't be having erections under these circumstances, so it shouldn't make any difference. The 1-3" soft penis could be a harassment magnet for a high school boy, but you do have a few things working in your favor. You've got until the beginning of the school year to grow, so I hope time will work in your favor. It also helps that you're a popular guy, and anyone who would harass a guy because of his penis size is a jerk, so even the potential jerks who may be thinking, "I've got 3-4" on him." may decide, "It's better for me if I keep my keen analyst to myself." For your part, just handle yourself like yours is just one of the many penises in the room.
The first has to do with your classroom, "I can't go to the chalkboard right now!" experience. It's time you started dressing like a man. Up until recently, you had 2 inch erections. You could wear nice, comfortable, loose clothing and nobody would notice when you had an erection. But as those erections stuck farther and farther out from your body, they were no longer going to be your little secret if and when you had to stand up in front of class. To "dress like a man" means to wear underware that's going to keep your penis down in the soft position when it wants to act like a tent pole inside your pants. Sure, that's not as comfortable as the loose clothing, but you can't just live your life around your erections.
Second issue comes from your expectation that you'll have to be naked in front of all the other guys next school year, and are concerned about your size. You mentioned having 5" erections and thought that was small. It is a little small, but you shouldn't be having erections under these circumstances, so it shouldn't make any difference. The 1-3" soft penis could be a harassment magnet for a high school boy, but you do have a few things working in your favor. You've got until the beginning of the school year to grow, so I hope time will work in your favor. It also helps that you're a popular guy, and anyone who would harass a guy because of his penis size is a jerk, so even the potential jerks who may be thinking, "I've got 3-4" on him." may decide, "It's better for me if I keep my keen analyst to myself." For your part, just handle yourself like yours is just one of the many penises in the room.
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You mentioned having a 5" erection, and later, your concern about your size and being naked in the showers in high school next year. When I was your age, over half a century ago, so maybe it's different now, I wouldn't to be harassed about my 5" size as much as having an erection around a bunch of naked boys. A bunch of guys have written in about having erections, and ever group-masturbation, in the locker room so maybe that's no longer an issue.
You mentioned your soft length ranging from 1-3". That's too big a size range. I wouldn't expect soft size to range any more than 10% up or down. This leaves me wondering how you measure your penis. I suspect you are measuring it in the bathroom, getting 3" standing in front of the toilet and 1" sitting on it. The only measures that you should count should always be made with your body in the same position. The position I would choose, because it will give me the most favorable (long) measurement, would be leaning back with my butt supported by something. The way your penis is built/attached to your body, seated and leaning forward will pull your penis back, into your body. That's the only way I can think of for you to get a short measurement only one third the size of your long measurement and a length that is even shorter than the inch and a half I'd expect on a boy who hasn't yet begun puberty. The 3" soft vs 5" hard is a bigger gap than I would expect to see on most guys, but it could be explained by the saying, "There are showers and there are growers." You are a grower. Usually, I would expect the hard measurement to be 1/3 longer than the soft measurement, so a 3" soft penis would give you a 4" erection, but ultimately, you like to have a 6" soft penis become a 8" erection. (That's the high end of normal penis size.)
About the original issue of what to do with an unwanted erection, another writer suggested pulling your penis up and tucking it into your waste band. The good; It will work right now, and "up" is the easiest way to bend your penis from the straight-ahead position. The bad is that this leaves the most sensitive part of your penis rubbing against fabric of your pants. If I did this, I would hope it would soften up quickly and I could discreetly drop it down to "hanging free". The longer it is up there, and erect, the more likely it is that this would trigger an ejaculation up into my shirt, and somebody may notice a little "He looks really sexually worked up." body language and a semen stain.
You mentioned your soft length ranging from 1-3". That's too big a size range. I wouldn't expect soft size to range any more than 10% up or down. This leaves me wondering how you measure your penis. I suspect you are measuring it in the bathroom, getting 3" standing in front of the toilet and 1" sitting on it. The only measures that you should count should always be made with your body in the same position. The position I would choose, because it will give me the most favorable (long) measurement, would be leaning back with my butt supported by something. The way your penis is built/attached to your body, seated and leaning forward will pull your penis back, into your body. That's the only way I can think of for you to get a short measurement only one third the size of your long measurement and a length that is even shorter than the inch and a half I'd expect on a boy who hasn't yet begun puberty. The 3" soft vs 5" hard is a bigger gap than I would expect to see on most guys, but it could be explained by the saying, "There are showers and there are growers." You are a grower. Usually, I would expect the hard measurement to be 1/3 longer than the soft measurement, so a 3" soft penis would give you a 4" erection, but ultimately, you like to have a 6" soft penis become a 8" erection. (That's the high end of normal penis size.)
About the original issue of what to do with an unwanted erection, another writer suggested pulling your penis up and tucking it into your waste band. The good; It will work right now, and "up" is the easiest way to bend your penis from the straight-ahead position. The bad is that this leaves the most sensitive part of your penis rubbing against fabric of your pants. If I did this, I would hope it would soften up quickly and I could discreetly drop it down to "hanging free". The longer it is up there, and erect, the more likely it is that this would trigger an ejaculation up into my shirt, and somebody may notice a little "He looks really sexually worked up." body language and a semen stain.
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