Erection problem, I'm 17.

Hi honey! Not too long ago Erectile problems were only thought of happening with old men! BUT there is a HUGE surge in problems with younger people - like yourself! Some - including myself - believe it is from SO much pressure from Videos, Music, Movies etc, as I have told countless boys and girls your age and younger, IF sex was like this NO one would be going to work or school!!!! ;-) 8-| o.O

And I always tell people to go with the lowest common denominator first! You have discounted health reasons, BUT have brought in about emotional, mental reasons! To tell you the truth honey - especially in your case - I don't think it is either of these! 1. Because when someone is cheated on they usually go the opposite way to prove their "Manliness/Femaleness" - sort of a "I am great at this so it can't be that reason why you left"

I and many others believe that not only are you inindated hourly with sexual messages and ridiculous statements, but you are SO desensitized to everything around your. Be it, loud music - bass especially, video games, tv, cell phones, facebook, Twitter etc. We are ALLWAYS on now! No time to relax and connect with oneself, we are SO intertwined with stimuli that how can you get "excited" when you are ALWAYS ON!? Does that make sense to you? Thus I think the reason why sometimes you can and somtimes you can't! IF you are stressed out - and I'm not just talking about a job - with noise and stuff! Then you can't concentrate on being relaxed and in the moment! So if you take some QUIET time and learn to relax etc, then you will be able to be more intune with your body and your OWN feelings without outside stimuli! If you are watching the tv while on here, turn off the tv and just listen! Your body INSTANTLY starts calming down! So take a look at the Stimuli around you, and how you feel about the bombardment! I can virtually guarantee you that when you start getting intune with yourself then you can move to the next part - getting intune with both of you!

Thank you bambi for replying!
I think your right about the whole no time to relax, because I was just thinking when you were talking about noise and stuff, the only time my girlfriend and I have had sex, is when its completely quiet, but when there's things going on in the house its kinda difficult to do anything at all and I can't get into it....
Also the stress, from both my family and my girlfriend's family drama, school, and thinking about my future, there's a lot of things going that make it hard to actually have a break from everything.

When you notice it, it starts becoming SO obvious! I am VERY open with my boys - always raming down their throats about protections, STI's etc. ! so my eldest - 17 - came to me about 2 or 3 months ago asking about the EXACT same thing! Now if you saw him you would think that he is this virile guy - he is 6 2" about 200lbs and has girls lined up in every corner of the city! 8-| So he not only has the bombardments of noises and stresses that other teenagers have, BUT he also has this added "image" stress - if that makes sense! Every guy thinks he is the "MAN" and the girls think the same way!!! You should see the pictures young girls send to him! I am AMAZED and DISGUSTED! They are just putting it on a plate for him! so there he is, being SO worried about failing etc. So I told him the same thing - to relax and stop with the IPOD, The Cell phone, The stereo, the car, the tv, etc etc etc. I DAREN'T ask him how things are!!! 8-| o.O :$ But he seems a LOT happier!!! ;-) XD XD XD So it is something that SO many of you are experiencing right now! It's time to learn to relax and "JUST BE!" Thus meditation and yoga becoming a HUGE thing right now!

In my youngest sons school they are even teaching the kids to take a few minutes each day and just breathe! ESPECIALLY before tests - as kids get SO stressed out that they blank! You know the actress Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russel? Well there son was big into hockey so they moved the entire family upto Vancouver, BC! For their son to go to hockey school! In this school they brought in a meditation room - so the kids just went in there and learned how to REALLY relax! Within 1 year ALL of the students grades went up by an average of 30%! So she is trying to spread that through the school system and I FULLY support it! I know this sounds whacky but the best thing is to hold a smooth pebble! You rub the pebble between your thumb and fingers and just concentrate on it! IF your mind wanders, go back to the sensation of the rubbing and just breathe and relax! Within a few trys you WILL get the hang of it! And you can use the same process with your girlfriend! Just total concentration!

Hi I'm 13 and for 2 days now I haven't woke up with a hardwood and unable to get one to

Thank you! i know this is a year old but it helps, the quiet and the meditating were sooo effective. In currently achiving a strong erectionon i also just found out some advice. I cant just masterbate as fast or instantly as i used to, after being sexually active my body just needed to take a slower calmer approach, so follow bambi and relax and be comfident too. Want some advice that will make you feel good? the average male penis is larger than the average depth of a vagina :)

I am 16 and have been masturbating for around 3+ years now. Now I am no longer turned on by sexual thoughts about girls or am not interested in porn. I don't think I'm gay but does this mean I'm gay or do I have erectile disfunction from masturbating too much. Will stopping matsurbating for a while help, or what can I do??

I am 17 year old I get erection when I start masturbation but I can't maintain the erection when I stop masturbation please help .

i am currently experiencing this one too. so please helpp

Im in the same boat, even same age, i probably masterbate once a week, my girlfriend is unable to keep me hard yet i love her with all my heart, Is this erectile dysfunction?

Hi im turning 17 and i cant get hard anymore like i use to when i try to maturbate i wont get hard i dont do drugs and i dont drink please help

bruh I’m having the same problem I just had it last night like whenever I jerk off to porn like once every two to three weeks I’m good and I’ll get hard but when it comes down to having sex with my girl and we’re about to and we’re waiting to put on the condom she can’t get me hard and she feels bad and I feel like sh** because she thinks she can’t get me hard but I love her

Hi, this is not your physical issue,, mentally you need be mature to understand the physical relaxation with partner and how its works, you are just to young to understand the physical relationship and its feeling and this is very common in young children, for almost every teen physical relationship means only intercourse session with partner and just keeping only this into mind young boys and girls fall into intimacy relation.

Dear there is nothing to worry about physical problem in you, you know feeling and emotions make the intercourse session more romantic and long lasting.

Good luck

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