Right, I'm 17 and I have been masturbating since I was 13, and I had my first orgasm when I was that age. Even today, when I'm stimulating myself I can come in a matter of seconds, it's very easy!
My boyfriend is my best friend, and I love him very much, I trust him with my life. We have been together for a year but I have always been extremely close to him & I've been having sex with him for about 6 months, Sex is really good, it always feels amazing, but for some reason I always feel as if I'm on a peak (just about to orgasm) continuously after either we have sex or when he stimulates me but I cannot orgasm. He's extremely selfless&affectionate, he knows how to hit all my spots!! He's really good in bed!
I'm curious whether it is possibly an anxiety? Because we have tried everything and I just can't orgasm in front of him.
It's starting to really upset me because I can't show him what I truely feel for him&share a relationship of pleasure with him, &he's really upset because he thinks he's doing something wrong!!
Help please! x
My boyfriend is my best friend, and I love him very much, I trust him with my life. We have been together for a year but I have always been extremely close to him & I've been having sex with him for about 6 months, Sex is really good, it always feels amazing, but for some reason I always feel as if I'm on a peak (just about to orgasm) continuously after either we have sex or when he stimulates me but I cannot orgasm. He's extremely selfless&affectionate, he knows how to hit all my spots!! He's really good in bed!
I'm curious whether it is possibly an anxiety? Because we have tried everything and I just can't orgasm in front of him.
It's starting to really upset me because I can't show him what I truely feel for him&share a relationship of pleasure with him, &he's really upset because he thinks he's doing something wrong!!
Help please! x
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Yes, anxiety can cause anorgasmia in both men and women. Tell your bf that it is not his fault. Ask him to give you a full body massage to relax you before the two of you have sex. This may relax you enough to have an orgasm. If all else fails, fake it. A guy cannot tell the difference if you also use lubrication gel to mask your lack of personal lubrication.
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