Problem With Me?

You DEFINITELY Ejaculate that is what the white - then clear discharge is! So don't worry about that, also it is virtually imposible to pee while having sex - as the bladder muscles tense up allowing the Skenese gland to secrete ejaculate! The liquid comes through the urethra so you think that you are peeing! Also know that not ALL women can ejaculate - as they haven't learned about it and how to acheive it! So don't worry about that! And the high you feel is called Orgasm!!! Normal!! Is what you ARE not what other people are! IF you have never ejaculated does NOT make you less of a woman or LESS normal! So don't worry about it! OK?

He's got nothing to be upset about, you were "cumming" like crazy. That's what all the wetness was. Instead of running for the bathroom, stay connected and keep going for a terrific high. It sounds like you're getting the high you just don't wriggle and moan like he's looking for. Some girls don't. Have him Google female ejaculation or squirting, to find out what it is. Lots of guys wish they had a girl who could do that. It's something you can see that shows you really did something for her.

Use a towel or something to deal with it, but don't jump off just as you're about to explode in ecstacy. It's definitely not pee, let it flow. :-D

I imagine it happens more when you are on top. In that position, if you are facing him, his penis should be hitting your "G" spot and that seems to be the trigger for it. Make him understand this is YOUR thrill ride and he's participating in it.

Enjoy it XD

Thanks!! This whole time i always told him i cant cum or whatever and simply said i never did because i never knew what it was suppose to feel like; Now that i know that i do, and have the ability to do so i dont feel like im broken or less of a woman now. I remember talking to my aunt who' s in her 40's told me she cant because she cant allow her self to be incontrol and she hates sex so i always thought thats what it was with me. Everytime i had "pee" feeling i always questioned if that was it because i've heard it feel like that but I scared that it was lol; no girl want to pee on a guy!! I feel alot better about this whole situation now. Thanks alot =]

Also know that IF he is like this a LOT, he isn't the guy for you honey! You don't shoot someone that LOW down! There is fighting and then there's dirty fighting! And that was dirty! You do not need to prove your sexuality to anyone!!!

Yeah; I know but past guy's ive had sex with always thought that because i couldnt "cum" i wasnt like everyone else which is why sex to me i hated and i was always scared to express how i felt if it was good or whatever i made little noise but never alot. This guy i dont know what he does but i throw the pillows, the sheets come off blankets on the floor, nail in back everything lol and i dont care how loud i am or anything all i focus on is him and the moment, i've never loved sex until him. While we was fighting he had mentioned that sex with me is great and everything but because he couldnt make me cum he loss interest and that really hurt because like i've mentioned before i've never had someone give me the feeling hes ever given me so i know hes doing something right. I felt low and that was a cheap shot at me because ive heard it so many times and yet this time he doesnt understand that he is doing something right! but I told him today im not broken or whatever and that i have i even gave him the link to this post for him to read. He replies i know when females have orgasms and i dont think i ever made you cum, you said you never did.

Truthfully i always said no because i never knew what it was suppose to be like. After reading this clearly i have and i do! I guess because i guess im not loud or crazy about it he thinks hes not doing anything but look at the toes how curled they are, and how you leave me motionless and lifeless that should show and mean something he would think but i guess not. Well now i no to NOT run to the bathroom and try and let it flow; we'll see what happens i'll be sure to come back with an update when i do! Now i'm looking for to having that moment again XD

Sex is sex!!! Sometimes it's a hit! And sometimes it isn't! A woman orgasm and ejaculation comes down to how she is feeling that day! A man all it takes is a thought! We AREN'T like that! If we are tense, upset, feeling ill etc, we CANT' jump off the ceiling, we can't ejaculate - because our brain - the biggest sex organ - is handling other things at the time! THUS the reason why people say guys THINK with their penis's! It's true! We can be having the WORST fight ever, and they will be ready to go! We are like "Don't think so buddy!" It's not a personal thing - well ok sometimes ;-) - it's about physical and mental/emotional exhaustion! So just because your not screaming his name 30 times a night, doesn't mean you aren't still in the moment! And what about couples with children?!!! The kids would be traumatized if you kept screaming out and banging off the head board!!!! ;-) o.O XD So you ARE normal and don't be like screaming when you don't feel like it! Then you ARE faking aren't you? Just be you!

Yeah; Thanks bambi27 your are really helpful and i really apperciate all this; Now i really seriously dont feel so bad about this; Its good to know that i'm not the only one who feels, and has these problems and i love that there are people like you that acturally help and listen =]