Im 16 and was in the situation to have sex with my girlfriend a couple days ago....It was my first time having sex but ive had blowjobs and handjobs b4.. well newayz we were at her house(with her mom and her friend) and we started making out while i was fingering her on the couch. we were both in the mood, and i felt like i was ready, but then we went to her room to have sex...i couldnt get an erecton. But just 10 minutes earlier on the couch i had an erection..Could the problem be that im not interested in her, do i masterbate too much(once almost everyday), was i nervous of getting caught by her mom, or not satisfying her. I know its not really possible to get the real answer unless i went to the doctor but i want to have sex with her soon, but i dont want the samething to happen. When this happened all she could tell me was how sorry she was but i was all i wanted to do was kill someone even though it wouldnt help..(I am in a gang and live a stressful life of death and poverty) but please if any1 has anything to say that can help me with this problem I'm all ears.
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oh and b4 any1 answers, could the problem be the girl... I mean she is a "freak" when it comes to sex, and i kno this because it is relly easy to get her wet, and when we tried to have sex we tried many sexual things that would usaully get me exited... please any1 I am anxious to know what the problems could be!!!
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Hi,
You don't have erectile dysfunction. You said it before, you had an erection 10 minutes earlier.
It was most likely knowing her mom and friend were in the house that put the damper on you. The first time can be nervous enough for you without having to worry about mom. Nervous means no erection.
It is also not her fault. It is purely yours. You control your erection, not the girl.
Just lay off masturbating for a bit so you know you're ready, find someplace without mom, and wear a condom. That's the other mood killer, knowing you can get her pregnant.
Hope it helps.
You don't have erectile dysfunction. You said it before, you had an erection 10 minutes earlier.
It was most likely knowing her mom and friend were in the house that put the damper on you. The first time can be nervous enough for you without having to worry about mom. Nervous means no erection.
It is also not her fault. It is purely yours. You control your erection, not the girl.
Just lay off masturbating for a bit so you know you're ready, find someplace without mom, and wear a condom. That's the other mood killer, knowing you can get her pregnant.
Hope it helps.
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thank you very much i feel much better, but should i be worried if this happens again???
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Don't worry about it.
Sometimes it just doesn't work :O
Oh, and it's not her job to make it work, don't blame her.
Sometimes it just doesn't work :O
Oh, and it's not her job to make it work, don't blame her.
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Every guy occasionally has troubles. It can be anything from stress to who knows.
Don't worry about it.
For what it's worth, the guys that "never" have trouble, are lying.
Don't worry about it.
For what it's worth, the guys that "never" have trouble, are lying.
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thanks alot. I talked to her about it and we plan to try again soon. I feel very fortunate she has an open mind. oh and thanks again... I just didnt want to have the idea in my head that there was something medically wrong with me...ty for your feedback and help in clearing my mindstate :-D
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