So we've been together for over three years, we're both in our mid 20s. At first we had sex all the time, a few times a week for two years. Last August, one night, he just didn't get hard. It had happened a few times before, mostly after drinking. But then it kept happening. Or not happening. Months started to go by and now it's been almost a year. A lot of it is that he's really frustrated and mentally blocks himself. We're both a little overweight and I've gained a lot more weight over the past year, partly due to the stress of this situation. I try to be patient, but what am I supposed to do? Is this what the rest of my life will be like? I find myself getting really depressed about it. I feel so disconnected from him. He's FINALLY going in to ask a doctor. What else should I do?
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It sounds like he might need more stimulation. The alcohol surely doesn't help much with the problem. I suggest that one night you both hold off on the drinks and just go up to your room. Slowly caress him and be gentle, soft touch can drive a man crazy. Also try new things, change it up a bit. If one thing didn't work, try something else. You can also try giving him extremely erotic thoughts, whisper in his ear some erotic things, and drive him bonkers. Hope it works out. - Adam
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This might not be the best advice but since I have somewhat the same problem I can help. Now drugs and alcohol can be a big factor to this. When I was 16 (im 19) my friends had gotten me into ecstasy, I took so many pills and drank ALOT. When your on the pill usually guys can't get hard. If they do its because they force the blood into the penis and then you get an erected penis. For most people who stop the drug they have a hard time getting hard when their about to have sex. Im not saying he does that stuff, but from my experience that would be one major problem causing ERECTILE DISFUNCTION. My advice would to buy a pack of LIBAGROW( MALE STIMULATER), VIAGRA or ZERNEX (very good). ED can cause stress on both partners, especially us men. I honestly sometimes feel like I've lost my manhood. It is also EXTREMELY embarrassing. I hope you to can fix your problem and have a happier sex life :]
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The hint you gave is that both of you are a little overweight. I think he could be having a case of Erectile Dysfunction (ED) and being overweight is definitely a risk factor. ED can be a very frustrating experience for both parties so I sympathize with you.
But there are some things he can do to get back his hard erections like:
1. change of diet - cut out the fat and eat more healthful foods
2. quit smoking as nicotine can damage the linings of arteries and restrict blood flow
3. exercise more and especially get rid of that belly
4. doing some penile exercises called Kegels which can strengthen erections
5. take herbal supplements that help increase testosterone levels and blood flow
If you need more help, check my profile for a free ebook on ED which explains how a man can overcome ED and live a sexually active life again. Its on my website.
But there are some things he can do to get back his hard erections like:
1. change of diet - cut out the fat and eat more healthful foods
2. quit smoking as nicotine can damage the linings of arteries and restrict blood flow
3. exercise more and especially get rid of that belly
4. doing some penile exercises called Kegels which can strengthen erections
5. take herbal supplements that help increase testosterone levels and blood flow
If you need more help, check my profile for a free ebook on ED which explains how a man can overcome ED and live a sexually active life again. Its on my website.
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