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hi, i awoke one night at bout 2 in the morning and just went for a walk to check on the kids( i have twin boys aged 11). i looked into their room, because i saw the light on from down the hallway, and there they were both naked masturbating each other's penis. when i asked what they were doing they said nothing and then jumped into bed. i also caught them one night in the same bed (they were sleeping) naked with ones's penis in other bum.

What am i supposed to do with them???????????

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Hi, My names is Summer, it must be very award for you.. im 13.. i masterbate .. its natral..but two boys having stuff is a bit messed up they might be gay for each other.. try talking to them and ask them why they are doing it.. try and get to the bottem of it hope that helps.

 

~Summer  

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I really don't think that two brother's are supposed to "have sex" It's really messed up. Talk to them.
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This hard post to answer but going do in 2 part

ONE masturbating is normal and even at 11 yo it ok and yes twin are going to masturbate together if they sleep in same room.

i,m going ask some questions to know. One to make shore this real post. and to make shore i know what going on. :note you can privet massage me if like: so not to post answer in public

you say they ware "masturbating". ware they jest sleeping in same bed with erect penis or ware they actively masturbating.

Part 2 you caught them with their penis 'in ones's penis in other bum ' is it possible that they ware jest sleeping back to front and one had a erection. at a bad time

also I think you have to have some set them if possible a older male in there life and talk Sex , Puberty , Masturbating , being Naked Together right and wrong, and if Not Circumcised it time talk about Cleaning and Foreskin restoration.

I know this long post please let me know if i can help think you for time
Over All i Think your Boy are going to be fine and are jest being young boy how are exploring there body's and starting puberty

have good day J-save
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1. actively masturbating each others' penis

2. no because when was lifting on of the boys' to his own bed i noticed that i was also pulling his penis out of the other one's bum
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Have you talk to them about puberty and sex and what is ok.and not ok i also think you may have get them some counseling for them. is wall.

also your son are young are they showing any sing of puberty. or do you think it possible they have some one showing them any of this stuff.

thank,s for time

j-save
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Hello Qwertyulop, I guess they are just explorating each other, Are they hit puberty?... Can you see some puberty sign of them?
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Talk to them jerking off together for boys is not unatural. don't make it abig deal. Better if your husband ,brother or another male talks to them.
Remember one is born gay if they are. hard to tell. If on child is ga most likely a Twin will be also. If you think they might be. talk to some other parents of a Gay child. It will not go away you need to except this if it is true and love them. I'm a gay man with Str8 parents and Str8 children.
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I'm going to presume that this is a truthful post (something I can't be sure of, of course.)

The first advice I have for you is to stop asking for advice on the Internet. You need to speak with someone who has training in counseling and human sexuality. I'm not a counselor, but I do have a masters in psychology, and a doctorate in higher education. From my experience and training, I can tell you that it's not uncommon for siblings to experiment with each other early in puberty. This is especially true for twin boys. They're turned on, they're very emotionally close, and for them, fooling around with each other is very much like masturbating themselves.

Someone needs to talk to them about sex overall, and open the lines of communication about sexuality, masturbation, protection from STDs, etc. Then, just let nature take its course.
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If they are gay let them come out at their own time, dont make them think that your forcing them to say something they dont want to say. Also you should get a male to talk to them about puberty masterbating. Masturbating is something very natural its ok to do it. Just dont get mad at them, talk to them gently. Cuz sometimes when parents get mad at their children for doing something natural kind of breaks the bond a bit.

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I guess your twins just start their puberty. Did you noticed some physic body change?
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Give then a piece of yo mind
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Hello I'm 14 and I'm a gay teen. As a gay teen I know its hard to talk about this kinda stuff but if you have not told them yet just a good idea is to write a note to the boys and say what you think and feel and tell them to write a reply and just write it on the paper don't say it face to face as it can be a bit weird. After just write little notes and make them reply so its less weird for the three of you. They might be just wanting fun and might be gay or maybe might be in love with each other. Some thing you must not do is call them weird or disown them as it hurts a lot but tell them you love them. This might just be a small thing or just want fun. Talk to them about the cons and dis', just go easy on them and find out one step at a time.

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JustAnotherBoy gave the best answer of all.  I am thankful for a mother that was open to the reality of my brother and I experimenting.  We had the talk about safe sex and dangers of sex with strangers.  We were 14 when we got caught but we had been doing it for years before that.  We are now college roommates and sleep in the same bed just like we did at home.

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hi, I'm gay and I remember when i was around that age doing similar stuff with my brother. Just let them get on with it to be honest. Eventually it will get awkward. Don't bring it up because it will embarrass them.

It also might help to keep them in separate bedrooms.

But just ignore it. You can't control hormones.
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