I'm male and 15. When I masurbate I can't feel anything at all. I've tried it all the stuff people have told me to try and it don't work. I even have had sex once and I didn't feel anything, it was nice but it was like the same sensation as my finger. I can orgasm but I have to do this sheet-shag thing. My penis is like sideways between my inner thigh and my duvet, and I obviously can't do it with much of an errection. I'm scared in case I can't have kids the proper way. I want to go the doctors but I am nervous to go. If I have to I will. Many Thanks.
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I think you're telling us that you're not getting much satisfaction from masturbation.
And that your technique is something to do with a down covering quilt or bedding.
At age 15, you're not fully developed, so I wouldn't jump to any conclusions that you will or will not always feel this way, or do it this way.
You're still learning.
So you have had sex once. And it didn't feel very thrilling.
And it wasn't what you expected.
Not many people find sex is just as expected.
I can't comment on why you seem to not feel anything (physically? emotionally?) because I'm not in your skin... but generally, the longer you wait between sessions and climaxes, the more intense they will be, and the greater your sensations will be.
After a wait of two weeks, your body is likely to experience a "wet dream" to deal with the excess semen itself. Masturbating just prior to that happening is generally very exciting for a young man.
If you are troubled by this, be all means, go speak with a counselor. But I don't think you have much to worry about yet.
With only one sexual experience under your belt, you don't have a lot of data on which to base your speculations or preferences.
Dont' worry. Give it time.
And that your technique is something to do with a down covering quilt or bedding.
At age 15, you're not fully developed, so I wouldn't jump to any conclusions that you will or will not always feel this way, or do it this way.
You're still learning.
So you have had sex once. And it didn't feel very thrilling.
And it wasn't what you expected.
Not many people find sex is just as expected.
I can't comment on why you seem to not feel anything (physically? emotionally?) because I'm not in your skin... but generally, the longer you wait between sessions and climaxes, the more intense they will be, and the greater your sensations will be.
After a wait of two weeks, your body is likely to experience a "wet dream" to deal with the excess semen itself. Masturbating just prior to that happening is generally very exciting for a young man.
If you are troubled by this, be all means, go speak with a counselor. But I don't think you have much to worry about yet.
With only one sexual experience under your belt, you don't have a lot of data on which to base your speculations or preferences.
Dont' worry. Give it time.
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Thanks for the reply but after ALOT of research I think its something to do with nerve endings or something. I should be able to feel something as i try to do it the right way but doesn't seem to do anything.
I think that I'm going to go to the doctors and see what happens.
I think that I'm going to go to the doctors and see what happens.
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You may have just trained yourself to only respond to one particular position or sensation. I take it your sheet or duvet is particularly soft or gentle? You may just be reacting to the subtle stimulation that it gives you. You may also respond to gentle, light teasing strokes or the unexpected moves or strokes from a partner, as well.
Don't assume that sex will never be satisfactory for you. There's a lot more to intercourse and relationships than just banging away as fast as you can to get to orgasm. That takes time for a young man to learn.... and is one of the reasons why women prefer older, more experienced lovers... for the lessions and techniques that they may have learned along the way.
Relax.
Don't assume that sex will never be satisfactory for you. There's a lot more to intercourse and relationships than just banging away as fast as you can to get to orgasm. That takes time for a young man to learn.... and is one of the reasons why women prefer older, more experienced lovers... for the lessions and techniques that they may have learned along the way.
Relax.
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anonymous wrote:
anonymous wrote:
Dude. Same thing with me ! I dont feel anything unless i do the bed thing:/
You may have just trained yourself to only respond to one particular position or sensation. I take it your sheet or duvet is particularly soft or gentle? You may just be reacting to the subtle stimulation that it gives you. You may also respond to gentle, light teasing strokes or the unexpected moves or strokes from a partner, as well.
Don't assume that sex will never be satisfactory for you. There's a lot more to intercourse and relationships than just banging away as fast as you can to get to orgasm. That takes time for a young man to learn.... and is one of the reasons why women prefer older, more experienced lovers... for the lessions and techniques that they may have learned along the way.
Relax.
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Im a 15 yr old male too, ive never had sex, but my penis feels much less sensative than it did when i was younger. when i was about 10 yrs old, I remember if I went in the shower and the water hit my penis it felt really sensitive, like so sensitive i had to recoil away from it not out of pain, but pleasure. now I can't even feel a feather touching my penis. I can get erections fine and my penis is a little over 7 inches, but the head of my penis has almost no sensitivity at all. i can barely feel when things touch it. could there be a reason for this?
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What if you have never had a good feeling whilst wanking and only when you cum but now you can't feel anything when you cum
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I cant even feel anything, no build up no release. Ive never been able to feel pleasure before. I noticed first at 11 when i masturbated for the first time. I can feel normal touch though my penis tho. I dont feel comfortable with sexual partners and have ruined every relationship because im too scared to tell them about it. I cant take it anymore. Sorry for rant
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