CAN'T GET AN ERECTION WHEN IM WITH MY GIRLFRIEND

So True...thats whats happening to me...just wanna watch porn to help me... but i dont think my girlfriend will agree to that!

I have the same problem i dont know what to do

Im thinking it might be because of how you view the person?
Im having the same problem with this girl i met just over a month ago shes super cool and we get a long great and she has an extremely sensitive clitoris and g spot but i still have trouble getting turned on :(
Im starting to think that its because I think of her more of a friend than as a sex partner

well... you're 16... you shouldn't be having sex.

You sir have a point...

Ive been reading what everyone has to say on this and every one said you have to relax. but what if your in the  middle  of kissing??? How would you relax then ??? Im 16 and i have a girlfriend and sometimes i can get hard but other times i just can't. 

ive been having the same problome with my girlfriend. she thinks its her, but i know its not her, i think its maybe bceause i was in love with my ex girlfriend and it was really easy to get hard when i had sex with her. maybe thats why i cant hav sex with my new girlfriend...?

I actually need foreplay to get it up during. So if we try to go straight into it it's much harder to perform, maybe have her tease you (not too much) or just sort of make you ask for it. The chase can really get your blood boiling

I'm 23 and this happens to me too. I'm 5 months in with my gf and can't get hard, she's 19 and tells me she's a virgin. We've tried twice to have sex but I just can't get hard for her, I finger her and foreplay for about 20 minutes and seems like she gets over it after a while and pulls her pants back up. Idk what could be wrong, maybe it is anxiety...even stress with a full time job and part time student. It's good to know that this happens to other people aswell. 

soo im 17 almost 18, ive had sex with 4 other girls and have not had this problem till my recent girlfriend. im finally in love (used to be a player) and i just cant have sex with her. its happened about 7 times where we try to have sex and either i put the condom on and i get soft or she just cant get me hard. I get soo hard when we fool around or when she blows me but then i put the condom on and it goes away instantly but like when shes on her period and we are fooling around i get such a hard on its insane and im so turned on.. im never like it when we can actually have sex. I dont get this at all.. its happened to me with the other girls but like 1 or 2 times and ive never had to use a condom until this girl because its a serious relationship. I dont get it and it f*****g sucks i honestly hate myself because she thinks its her when really its me.. ive tried to have sex with other girls in the past too and i havnt been able to get hard.. i just dont get it. i jack off prob like 4 times a week but like with the other girls id always have sex on my mind and always think about f*****g them but with this girl i really dont think about it that much.. shes so sexy and amazing and im deeply in love but i feel like this will never get solved and i cant live with her just giving me head even though shes great at it.. it honestly sucks and idk what to do.. should i go to a doctor? is it something in my head? like idk what and its frustrating me so much cause i really want to f**k her hahah

 

This happened to me when i started dating my girlfriend of 3 years.It's all just because your not relaxed,its normal and all you need to do is talk to her about it and she'll understand and help you through it.Instead of denying it talk to her about it and then she'll help relax you and believe it or not shes nervous to.It's different when you do it out of lust and you do it out of love,I've never had a problem getting an erection with previous partners only when i actually started to love my gf did problems arise.just chill out and talk,it took me about a month and 10-ish try's but hey that's just me.

This happened to me when i started dating my girlfriend of 3 years.It's all just because your not relaxed,its normal and all you need to do is talk to her about it and she'll understand and help you through it.Instead of denying it talk to her about it and then she'll help relax you and believe it or not shes nervous to.It's different when you do it out of lust and you do it out of love,I've never had a problem getting an erection with previous partners only when i actually started to love my gf did problems arise.just chill out and talk,it took me about a month and 10-ish try's but hey that's just me.

I solved my problem ..tell yur girl to send yu sexy pictures...if yu can watch porn and get hard ..trick yur penis and to getting hard when yu see yur girl....jack off it her pics don't cum tho get close a couple of times and stop ..repeat daily or when yu turned on by now cuming it's stop yur penis from ever getting soft while looking at her pics or videos :) but sons yur see her you'll get all hard ecractions* back you'll be good as new ..I tthink it took me about 2 weeks ..keep a calm mind with her and don't think lol I'm 19 and I Had yur problem ..Stop watching porn stop jacking off to anything unless it's yur girl

Same issues have happened to me guys and im 23, last night was the third time i tried to have sex with her, I blame it on me watching porn so much and the fact that i cant remember the last time i slept, im sure anxiety has a big part in this and also nervousness, oh by the way im a virgin, so between no slee, stress, nervouseness, perfect fabricated girl in my mind due to watching porn there could be so many things hendering a perfectly healthy person otherwise from performing my new years resolution is to relax get some sleep and let nature take its coures... in due time fellas in due time...

Hi I have the same problem. I use to have erection when I am out with my gf. But lately I find ou that I don't have it any more. I can never get it up. I am so stress about this situation. I felt embarrass to go out with girls now because I am afraid that it will happen to me again.